2006-08-16 00:44:36 · 19 answers · asked by CheekySlag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you been dating ?
In what circumstance does this happen ? Are you expecting they will invite their friends over to meet you --- or when you are in "couple mode" and you encounter the friends are you not being introduced ?
Are you being introduced by not defined ? (Meaning, "this is Stacey" and not, "This is my girlfriend, Stacey.")
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If you haven't been dating long; if you are not a solid "couple" where when they think of "Tom" they really think of "Tom and Stacey," then the lack of introduction to friends is to be expected. If you have been dating long enough to assume that you'll see each other Friday night-Saturday-Sunday, then it's time for introductions.
If you're out as a couple and you encounter the "friends" and you are ignored, then that is just plain rude and has no relationship to boyfriend/girlfriend. If you are out as a couple and you encounter the "friends" and you are introduced - then how you are introduced would depend on how long you have been together. (See above.) Bottom line, if you have been together long enough to expect a future, even just the near future, then you need to be introduced with a distinction.
You can always introduce yourself if your b/g/f "forgets" to.....
2006-08-16 00:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine really didn't want to his friends and I asked him about it once. It wasn't because he was embarrassed by me, but knew we were from 2 different worlds. His friends were stoners and I was very straight laced, or a prude as some say. But he changed a lot when we got serious and so did I. We've been married 10 years now!!
Just find out why. If he's not introducing you because he is embarrassed by you, then yes that is wrong, dump them, but if there is a legit answer, well, then you have to use good judgement.
2006-08-16 00:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by isellpc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that we will never know the whats and whys on men.
But, its been my experience that some friends either the introducer or the one being introduced arent friend meeting material. The usually don't want you to know or see something about them and their behaviors. It could also be a timing thing. Wait it out and see or call CHEATERS.
2006-08-16 00:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i wouldnt say it's ok, but maybe he's just shy. I have the same problem, but it doesnt mean I dont love my gf. If you havent been dating long, he will eventually get more comfortable, and will be better at introducing.
2006-08-16 00:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are someones significant other, it would be common curtisy(spelling) to introduce them. If you are just a fling thing, don't bet on getting the introduction, that just leads to explainations when the scenery changes (i.e. when you are not in the picture anymore). Harsh, but true.
2006-08-16 00:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by slyguy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no its not ok,a gf/gb is supposed to want to show off their partner to the world even if shes wearing worn out pants,i can'tthink of a logical reason a person would not want o introduce their partner other than they are ashamed of them....but anyway perharps it was cause he/she feels that his/her friends are insignificant so you don't need to know them. Tw xxx
2006-08-16 00:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, that is if he wants to protect you from his/her sick friends that could end up complicating your relationship. Actually they just have your best interests at heart. Or they are ashamed of showing you off to their friends for the fear of being judged. You got to look at where you are in your relationship and see what option fits best.
2006-08-16 00:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think if someone loves you then he should not have any problems to introduce you to anyone in this world.
2006-08-16 00:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a gentle move from him that he introduce his friends to me
and i will respect him for that because this move shows that he respects me,
and all da guys I've known did that
2006-08-16 00:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Rasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,and no what i mean bythat is if she or he dont then i would be like why dont you want to ,and on the other hand maybe she or he is not hideing anything they just think there friend isnt mature enough cov. wise to be around you
2006-08-16 00:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋