I always have this attachment thing that I think that if I get a girlfriend, I will end up falling in love w/ her and would wanna marry her. If I don't marry her, then still, the girl I would marry, I wouldn't love her as deeply as I would have if I was a virgin. Please make your answer not brief, and only serious comments here.
2006-08-16 00:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by LLLL O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, your thinking too hard. Next time you get into a relationship, dont go that far with it. Just think I am dating you right now, to see day by day how we get along. If it keeps working well, I wil keep seeing you. Tell her YOur afraid of commitment, so dont pressure you about it, and let time take its tool. But reassure her, that you still like her very much and want to continue on. Dont push yourself. Go with the flow. If it happens it does. And when you want to get married the feeling is so overwhelming you definatly will know. Just take your time stop thinking too far ahesad and enjoy yourself in the moment!
2006-08-16 00:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked questions about breaks before orgasm and the pace at which a woman likes to f***ed--using your words here. A non-committed relationship? Do you mean not having sex or do you mean not being with just one person?
This is what I think about having a relationship that doesn't involve sex before marriage....if it works for you, then go for it. I don't think it will have any bearing on how you would feel about the person you marry. And if you think that having sex equates deep love then you are seriously mistaken. They say you never forget your first experience no matter how good or bad. I would hope that if you are a virgin...and I think you aren't....that you would respect yourself enough to wait until you are with someone you feel a deep connection with. And this is regardless of whether you are or are going to marry this person. And if you have attatchment issues, then my next guess would be is you want to be a player in which case makes you an a** in my book....
2006-08-16 00:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a tough one!
First of all, I think that you can love someone dearly even if you are not married with her.
Secondly, the most important thing is the feelings you have deep down that are the most important, not the paper proving you are married or not.
Thirdly, it is not because the fact that you are virgin doesn't come into the equation.
2006-08-16 00:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non-committed relationships are WONDERFUL. You both are in it for the same reasons and there aren't the expectations of life and family together. You get to enjoy each other and not have to worry about all the drama that surrounds committed relationships. If I never get in a committed relationship again.....I really don't think It would bother me too much.
2006-08-16 00:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not neccessarily bad if you can handle that..but from experience-it's not the best because most likely you or the other person will end up getting too attached and get hurt because the other person doesn't feel the same.
2006-08-16 00:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by lil_qtie06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r feeling insecure!! if u find the right woman u will automatically know that u would wanna have kids with her n marry her live 4 ever with her!!!!
if the women u r with, r just ok in bed, that doesn't make them proper lifetime partners!!
Believe me u will know the difference of the proper woman n the bitchy woman!
2006-08-16 00:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by maria32greece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋