this is like totally unfair! Has it ever happened to you? what happened?
2006-08-15 23:29:19 · 19 answers · asked by freaky_drug_dealer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
People are just judgemental assholes that like to put other down to feel good about themselves
2006-08-15 23:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it... but... that's life.
Humans are emotional creatures. It is a blessed gift, but at the same time it is our conviction. Our emotions make us dramatic individuals, and therefore we remember events which we deem "dramatic". We all act this way to remember important events. We use it to react correctly in reoccuring situations, but of course it may be used in such a way that offend others.
Life is unfair.... I agree. Life is also short. Every moment you spend complaining about how it's unfair, is a moment you loose.
Forever.
Have a nice day.
2006-08-15 23:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Henry L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It happens to everyone. I remember when I was in 5th grade this boy lied and said we had sex. Now I don't know who in the 5th grade is having sex or even knows what it is but for some reason people always believed that. It just got worst in middle school because he had his two friends saying they ran a train on me. JUST HOW SICK! I WISH I HAD BEAT THE LIVING HELL OUT OF THEM! It stuck with me until high school when everyone just realized one day that I was nothing like that. You know its funny because Karma always comes back and that boy that started that rumor never made it out of middle school. He only made it to 7th grade. So here is now almost 19 and never even made it to high school. Just a low life nobody. I also think people should not judge anyone because you never know what a person has been thru. Just like in school I'm sure everyone has made fun of the person who came to school in mix-matchin clothes and just looked dirty and crazy. That was wrong because for all you know that person could have been poor and had parents who were drug addicts and didn't care about them. People are just plain mean and I'm sorry to say but sometimes I think we don't deserve the gift of life that god gave us. None of us
2006-08-15 23:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tends to stick more in your mind if you make a mistake rather than if you just get on with things in the background. Guess it depends on how well they know you too, if they know you well you'll be fine. Not really happened to me but my mum fell over in Paddington station and was virtually spat on by the smart business men behind muttering about ppl who drink during the day, and it was only an innocent accident!
2006-08-15 23:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not fair but that the way we as humans are. there have been many instances where I have been wrongly judged and it makes you mad but getting mad at the person/s does not make it any easier. Now if I am under attack I try to ignore it because life is too short to get hung up on other peoples misjudgements. Best person to judge you is yourself you know yourself better than anyone else on this earth.
2006-08-15 23:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by citta_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone at some time in their life, the ones who are quick to judge are usually the ones who forget they have made mistakes themselves, its a bit of a do as I say, not as I do problem for them, who are we to judge anyone.
2006-08-15 23:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure why human beings do it, lack of information? they do no longer choose to be judged themselves? I have no theory i attempt and not decide cuz while i replaced into in center college, nicely, grades 5th-8th, i went to a private college, all and sundry there judged me a forged me out, so for 4 years i replaced into caught interior a similar class with people who shared a similar non secular ideals as me yet does not assaciate with me once I have been given to college, i keep in mind this one guy, he thoght faith replaced into *****, he replaced into an anarchist, he had a mohawk, he did drugs, he replaced into the precise opposite of me, yet this guy replaced into staggering to me, and because 9th grade, I even have not judged all and sundry, nicely, that's a lie, yet i attempt to no longer decide human beings, i attempt and understand them i'm in college and that i can look lower back and notice that gaining information of that lesson, to no longer decide human beings, is the terrific ingredient I even have ever discovered, i'm not sure why, yet maximum human beings i know finally end up liking me and that i've got kinda exchange into rather universal
2016-09-29 08:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are miserable sods trying to prove that they are better than somebody else, and therefore get satisfaction out of doing someone else down. Its a measure of immaturity, or lack of evolvement
2006-08-18 22:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally for sure. Oh my gawd!
People who judge on one thing are douche bags.
2006-08-19 15:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its unfair in some cicumstances.......but it happens. why? well, i hate to say this, but a back mark is the only thing you look at on a white wall................same old,same old, i know lol........
2006-08-15 23:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋