how do know when u should call it a day??? If I cheat on him even though I love him should I stay or go???
2006-08-15 23:02:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I have already wot shud I do now stay r go???
2006-08-15 23:18:11 · update #1
It sure is Ok, to love someone and fancy other men. Just enjoy the pleasures or life
2006-08-15 23:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if you are saying you just fancy someone else or you have actually cheated. If you have cheated, then I would say you don't love him truly anyway. If you fancy someone else then that is ok. We can all fancy someone other than our partner, as long as we 'don't touch'. If you have cheated on him then the questions you have to ask yourself are 'do I really love him', 'will I do it again'. It is the answers to these questions whether you determine to leave him or not. Reading between the lines, because you are asking this question, I think you are looking for a reason to leave. Forgive me if I am wrong.
2006-08-15 23:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fancy 1938457695 men and love just one. It's not a big deal. If you actually cheat on him however maybe he's just not satisfying you as you thought. but think carefully about whether you want to mess up what you have (which i'm assuming is a loving relationship) for someone else. But if you have to ask yourself about calling it a day, then maybe it is indeed time to do so.
2006-08-15 23:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on your personal morality. You can fancy anyone but if you cheat then you're cheapening your relationship. Many people, however, can live with that and stay with the partner they love.
It depends if its just casual sex and whether you think it is essentially a meaningless act. The partner you love might not see it that way. But then, what's the difference if they never know?
2006-08-15 23:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Stomach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to look at the menu as long as you dont order any side dishes ... IF you order well your main course isn't right for you ...
IF you cheat on your "partner" dear your relationship is not strong .. things like this have a way of coming out.. think of it this way .. is it ok for him to cheat on you ? would you want him to stay or go after he confessed or you found out ?
2006-08-15 23:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is different to fancying someone.
it's alright to fancy someone as long as you don't get involved with them physically in the first place.we can't hide the fact that there are a lot og gorgeous men nowadays/but still,keeping in mind that you are in a long term relationship with this man,then,nothing is wrong with that.maybe he could be doin the same but not getting involved with anything that might cause your relationship to fall apart.
better ask yourself if,you still love your man..then you'll know what to do..
you didn't cheat darling..sometimes,fancying someone adds life to our relationship..but it depends on the way how you deal with it..
call it a day...^_-v
2006-08-15 23:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by peek-a-boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u call it a day when there is nothing left b#w d 2 of u. if u cheat on him dat means there is no love b#w u again. why waste his time and yours. move on if that is what u feel like doing
2006-08-15 23:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by ijlafia2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are always attracted to others but our commitments and love keep us to one person at a time. if you are looking to get out of your relationship do it for you, not to be with someone else or you'll spend your life chasing from one guy to another. you need to look at what's going wrong first and be a grown up. people are not toys to be discarded and replaced when you get bored. cheating is a cop out. face your problems and sort yourself out before you even think of being with someone else.
2006-08-15 23:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay to find other men attractive and have that little tingly feeling when passing. but if you have gone as far as cheating something is up. and is definetly not your boyfriend!!! if you trulyu love someone .. there is no question you just would not cheat!!. but how do u feel?
2006-08-15 23:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsunbear77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why shud u feel guilty dear ? it is nature's way that no person can stay with one spouse for long. enjooooyyyy!!! do anything u want but dont get involved or in trouble.that's the catchword !!!
2006-08-15 23:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋