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i have a friend at work that i think is cute. I work with my aunt, and she's been telling me that theres a guy at work that has a crush on me, and that i should ask him out. but wont tell me who.. **plus.. i feel that its the guys place to do so..** so ive been waiting. then i found out today that she is saying the same thing to him.. "a girl at work has a crush on you.. ask her out" but wont tell him that she is talking about me. i told her to stop butting in to personal issues.. but i kinda want to go out with him, and am too chicken to ask him out myself.. what do i do??

2006-08-15 23:01:19 · 12 answers · asked by i_am_kuku7 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

take a chance... ask him out very casually...make it out to be like its not a big thing. life would be no fun if we didnt take chances every once in a while. youll never really know how he feels about you until you ask...and whats the sense in waiting for him to get his head where it needs to be and ask you. guys tend to respect girls that kinda go after what they want.

2006-08-15 23:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by stephyr25 2 · 0 0

Sounds like you should have your aunt set up the date since she started it to begin with, but since you told her to butt out, write a note for him and tack it up by the time clock. Put in a pressed flower or something to add a special touch. I find writing notes and letters in situations that you don't want to contend with face to face works well, instead of not doing anything at all. Good Luck!

2006-08-16 06:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by pagudus6669 2 · 0 0

tell ur aunt to mind her own damn business, and if he does have a crush on you he is almost certanly just as shy if not more so cos like u said its the guys job to do the asking. but i personally think you should just talk to him and tell him you like him, or just ask him out as friends.

2006-08-16 06:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0 0

You make the first move, why not? Date him on the DL. Let the nosy aunt keep playing her game. I would not tell her a thing. Have fun with it as long as you can.

2006-08-16 06:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0 0

Lol, aunts are like this, if your sure that it's him, so go and ask him: "My aunt told you something about me?" if he says yes, then both laugh, then ask him if he wants to grab a coffee, then talk about things. So it's pretty simple.
Hope helps!!!!

2006-08-16 06:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by :) 2 · 0 0

Tell her to but the F out, nicely though. Then ask for a rise.$$$

2006-08-16 06:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Since your aunt is so pushy with this, why don't you ask her to set up the date?

2006-08-16 06:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Catmmo 4 · 0 0

first tell him that ur aunt was talking about u.....then boldly ask him if he was willing to go out withcha.....go ahead girl...rise ur spirit......

2006-08-16 06:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by R.A.W G 1 · 0 0

Kill your aunt... propose that guy.. Enjoy life!

2006-08-16 06:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mohan 5 · 0 0

jst dun worry n ignore ur aunt...

2006-08-16 06:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by kriti_uppal1 1 · 0 0

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