My boyfriend & I broke up recently after a long term relationship... now I feel SO lonely!! HELP
2006-08-15 22:26:36 · 18 answers · asked by Hayley V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey sorry about what happened to u dear,but every thing happens for the best (in such a position u have to believe in that)
okay so first of all,make a list of all the things u couldnt or didnt get to do while u were dating,hang out with frnds,they are the best time killers,visit ppl,take up a hobby,go for a holiday,basically make sure that u are never alone,im sure ul get over it as soon as possible,and most important of all remember its not the end of the world,im sure ur a very cute and sweet girl and ul surely get a new guy soon,so all the best and have fun...
bye...
2006-08-15 22:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by nice guy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
www.enotalone.com
this site really does help alot!
Also,getting out and finding new things to do
that do not remind you of him,and keeping a
journal. Write and read lots of good books,
and treat yourself to all new makeup and a
new look,and ask yourself what you learned
from this guy and if you learned something
useful about relationships,people,ect.......
Write about your hopes & dreams and make
a few new friends so that nothing stays just
like it was before. Change things some,and
that does help,though at first seems really
hard,if you just do it,you feel better!!!
Cooking and finding new recipes is good if
you don't eat too much or get too big,and
even buying a few indoor plants or a new pet!
You should see how I love my indoor garden
now!!! I have a new man since me & my old
boyfriend broke up,and I think it helped me
to experience what I went through with him?
I love more and I feel more like being who I
really am even at the risk of rejection,and I
am more willing to take things slower so I
can grow and learn at my own pace.
I wish you only the very best. It took 8 months
to get over my last boyfriend,and I don't ever
want to go through that again. Now I feel lots
happier and better,and you will too,ok?
2006-08-16 05:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are through with the relationship, hanging out with friends and doing things you enjoy seem to work the best. It would depend on whether you were lonely for boyfriend or whether you just need companionship and a friend. Do something that you have wanted to do for a long time but have'nt because of your relationship. You might just need to find out who you are and define youself as an individual.
2006-08-16 05:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by onedone2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend more time with your other friends. Whome you are very close. Or else if you have some hobbies or interest like singing, dancing music etc. Try to spend time on them. Infact join some classes there you will find people of your taste and you will get gud friends of your taste and you wnt be lonely anymore. Try chatting also.
2006-08-16 05:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by ariesaregudfriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your friends. Maybe getting involved in a social group or two. Take a class. Go out on the town and flirt with other guys. By doing these things instead of sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself, you are on the road to getting over him.
2006-08-16 05:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in an equal situation ... we broke up because it doesn't worked out .. I was very sad ... I went out with my friend but not with the plan to find a new girlfriend .. only to get new thoughts.. and two weeks later I had a new girlfriend .. and everything was fine .. happy end ;-)
2006-08-16 05:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by T-Rex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your situation... welll ... u will contiune to feel lonely until u find a new love interest. because, even though u find somthing to do, when u are resting.. u will still feel that sense of lonelness...again..so i think u must change ur mindset.. enjoy your single hood and find a hobby to do...
2006-08-16 05:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
en bref
try to do anything except thinking of him
and don't do anything u use to do with him witch is the most important thing witch may help u
if u remember him call anyone at the moment and change ur brain subject!!!!!!!
my best wishes
2006-08-16 05:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
will start wit findin som one to talk to about the pain will go ah way nothing last forever so but if u want to talk ill listen
2006-08-16 05:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by pistolgrip104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry. Look for friends on net. you will easily find many. Good luck
2006-08-16 05:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Indian_Male 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋