if ur married u wish u were single, if ur single u wish u were marries, if u with a slim partner u want one who is meatier in places etc etc list is endless whats ur wants ?
2006-08-15 22:24:21 · 27 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The grass is always greener...
2006-08-15 22:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by anon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes.....it makes no sense that we feel like this either, but I believe there is not a person in the western hemisphere who doesn't feel this way sometimes.
Why?? Because we're conditioned by capitalism from the word go. Desire and fulfilment (however short lived) are what really fuels our societies...and it's a bummer.
I have the most beautiful, funniest, inteligent and sexy girlfriend I have ever had...she makes me feel like the most special lad on the planet...all heads turn when she walks into any bar/club/room and I'm the only one she wants (goodness knows why!)....but still I find myself checking out girls on the street, still I lie awake at night wondering if I am doing the right thing, wondering if maybe there is someone out there who is even better for me, wondering if I should be out on the pull enjoying what little is left of my youth...I HATE FEELING LIKE THIS!! You b$%^&s messed my head up when I was a kid and now I can't escape....I hope maturing helps you to deal with this crap.
2006-08-16 06:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by dEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that is being breed in us from society. We need to decide for ourselves what we want, we usually know when we find it. We need to learn to be happy with our decisions and realise tht the grass ISN'T always greener on the other side. A good relationship that lasts needs consistant tending on both sides.
2006-08-16 05:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its true you will always want something u cant have its like the child coming out in you if ur mum sed no sweets you would have pestered her, kicked and screamed till you got what you wanted and then sulked if you didnt get it.
2006-08-16 06:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by zoe198718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural thing to want stuff you don't have. It's desire. The reason why we do what we do.
I always want more of what I already have as far as knick knacks. I'm very content with every aspect of my life at the moment and desire to change nothing.
2006-08-16 05:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by OldyMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its true.you maybe perfectly happy with your partner but when your out shopping with him you still manage to spot that really fit guy about a mile away strutting his stuff and looking ultra fine.im sure men do it to.but as long as us women dont get tro shallow im sure our partners will put up with us lookingf at a bit of eye candy now and again!
2006-08-16 06:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by bex j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, I am contented being in a relationship, miserable being single. I have alot of love to give!
2006-08-16 05:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by jmhale2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always yearn for what you havent got! Or when you have something, you want something different! Its a fact of life i think! Your brain is always thinking what if! !
In time i think it slows down and you begin to realise what you have and appriciate it!!
2006-08-16 05:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me it has to do with our self esteem...........if ur self esteem is low then u always wnt want what u dnt have if its high you will be more focussed on building on what u hve already.....thats why some couples stay 2gether 4 life and others dnt....
2006-08-16 05:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sallie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true...if we have everything we want, we will still go looking for more. Advertisers really take full advantage of this human weakness.
2006-08-16 05:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl i am with is perfect. i don't think she could change to be better than she is.but in time i may find something but why look for faults in perfection?
2006-08-16 05:35:14 · answer #11 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋