my boyfriend always asks me to go down on him but im embarrased coz i dont no wat to do???

Question

Ive never done this before

Iv'e never done it before. he doesnt force me. But i would like to try it. Wat do i do to do it???

Answer 1

people she isnt saying she dosent want to do it. She is saying she dosent know what to do.

Basically just tell him your not sure what your doing, & I can guarantee he will be more then happy to teach you.

Practice makes perfect.

Answer 2

Don't be forced to do something you do want to do. By the way what your talking about is sodomy and is illegal.

But if you are curious about that whole thing, confide in someone you trust either a male or female. They will give pointers on what to do. That doe not mean do to them (the male).

Or you could watch one of the greatest movies of all time, Fast Times at Ridgemont High. There is a scene in that movie that deals with this very subject.

Then maybe you have a male friend your very close with and not a @sshole will let you give him your first one. He could instruct you in what your doing right and wrong. Tell him you need a lesson and explain the situation to him. Don't consider this option as cheating on your boyfriend but more as a private lesson.

Answer 3

First of all never do anything that you dont feel happy to do, thats important as neither you or him will enjoy it. Also it should be a pleasureable experience for you both.

Theyre is not right or wrong way to do it, and it can be daunting at first, but everyone has their own individual style of doing to so dont be afraid. Just explore his manhood with your mouth and your tounge, try not to use your teeth as this can cause pain for them, pretend your sucking something nice, and move your mouth around, whilst doing this you can use your hands on it, or move them arund on his b*lls and caress him a little bit. Have a look on the net and see what you can research too, one life on radio 1 website is good and they also have a forum.

Good luck, above all else dont feel pressured into something you dont want to do, your an individual and you will know when something feels right.

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Answer 4

Okay this is an easy one. Do not be timid!! You know what guys say about the worst ******* they ever had??
It was great!!!! :)
Just wing it do not use any teeth and you will be fine. Things will happen naturally and then when you feel a little more confident ask him what he likes and what feels the best . You could just tell him he is the first and give him a real ego boost!! I promise you he will be more than willing to "help out"

Answer 5

If you don't want to do it then don't, if you want to and you're just afraid of not knowing what to do, then try your best and let him know that you have not done this before and ask him to guide you, there is a first time always, and practice makes perfect.

Answer 6

You don't have to do it now if it is embarrasing for you. But you may want to do it some times later. Until then you don't have to worry your self.

Answer 7

Don't do something just because someone asks you to, whether he is your bf or not. Whatever you want to do, you must be happy doing it. Don't let men get you to do things for their own selfish pleasure.

Answer 8

Talk to him and tell him ur not comfortable wid it.And if he dosen't understand, Kick hi ass and go find other boyfriend. Never do anything you don't like.

Answer 9

It looks like most people did not understand your question. You said the reason you don't want to give him head is that you don't know how to do it and you are embarassed about not knowing how.

Violet Blue has some description at her site, with links to several how-to-do-it pages.

Just please remember that you -can- get sexually transmitted diseases from giving oral sex.

Answer 10

She didnt say she doesn't want to. She says she doesnt know how.

You can try on phallic-shaped objects with a friend who DOES know how to do it and ask questions.

And you can find some porn (on video) and watch how they do it.

Try it. He will love you for it.