How do I know the difference between a boyfriend who is an extreme flirt and a boyfriend who is just drifting away from me?
I feel so stupid. I would think I'd be able to tell but I can't and it’s driving me crazy. Every time I ask him what is going on he says we are fine. But then he goes out and flirts with girls. He gets up close to them, little more than inches away from their face while talking to them dead in the eye. And then he says goodbye by implying possible sexual advancement.. Is that all flirting is? Is it extreme flirting. Why is he doing this to me? Why does he think it should not bother me or should not hurt me? I talked to him about it, but I don’t think he gets it. We’ve been together for a while and I think he’s just tired of me now even though he says he’s not.
What the hell is going on here? Am I going insane?
Does it count as a close call or does it not matter as long as he doesn't cheat (i.e. kiss, sex, and anything in between).
2006-08-15 21:57:37 · 9 answers · asked by kitt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not going insane. And he probably does get it.
I don't think he is a one-girl-guy, unfortunately. :-(
2006-08-15 22:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by ARTiculate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long as he doesn't cheat, I think it's ok. After all, he is leaving with you, isn't he? Then again, if you really feel strongly about this, maybe you should explain that you're simply not comfortable with what he's doing (behaving like he's single even though he's not)
2006-08-15 22:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does matter, cz this flirting thing is cheating also , so i guess yes he's tired of you, you can do the same thing with other guys and see how does he feel about it!!!
2006-08-15 22:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it tough, but just let him go, and start a new one.
These things usually happened when guys get everything from girls before they married.
2006-08-15 22:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like it r not you have got yourself a cheater on your hands and you have a heart aka coming your way soon watch what I'm saying.you need to start looking for someone else.
2006-08-15 22:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tend to say get rid of him, but first you could do the same thing and see if he likes it!
2006-08-15 22:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him - he's stressing you out
2006-08-15 22:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Susie K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carefull
2006-08-15 22:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by D T P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a kick on his .......
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2006-08-15 22:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Amit G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋