He has feelins for me but we never spoke about it. It is killing me what should I do?
2006-08-15 21:38:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi.
Are you sure you are really in love with the guy? You must also make sure that he feels the same way about you. Well the age gap is not really a problem but the fact that he is married will surely cause lots of problems. You said that he has feelings but never spoke about it. Have a serious conversation with him and try to find a solution together. Maybe you are not really in love with him. It may be that you are just attracted to him. And suppose he is really in love with you and he is ready to leave his wife, then what's the guarantee that he won't ever leave you. You should think well before taking any decision my dear in order not to regret afterwards. Pray to God and ask him to guide you toward the right path. He is the only one who will be able to help you. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-15 21:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it!! My mum ran offf with another married man in her office and it ruined my families lifes as well as his.
I had a very close relationship with my mum and i have haven't spoken to her in nearly 2 years because of it.
What you do has strong consciences on other peoples lives not just your own.
If it is just a crush it should go away. Just avoid him and he will get the message. You will be alot happier without him and the right person will come along for u when you least expect it.
2006-08-15 21:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you never spoke about it how do you know he has the same feelings. He is perhaps just being nice. Don't even think of going there, just smile and be nice back, be happy in his company, and look out for some one single.
2006-08-15 21:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by angelcake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sad as it is, no matter what they say a guy wont leave his wife. Especially as you're so much younger (though he might be tempted to stray every so often, but dont let this happen) 15 years IS a big difference. It's just one of those things me dear that you'll have to move on from.
2006-08-15 21:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!!!It's wrong unless he divorces his wife first.Please!You don't want to to wreck a happy
home.My cousin just started messing around with a married man and his wife is in the hospital because she tried to kill herself.Don't be selfish.Have some morals and put yourself in his wifes shoes.What would you do if your husband was cheating on you with someone he
works with. Have a heart!!!
2006-08-15 21:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he has feelings for you that means that you two are flirting. Fifteen years is too many years for anything but sex, and sex (even flirting) with a married man is a disgusting quality in a woman. You'll regret it later. Get another job or ignore this fool.
2006-08-15 21:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by J9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to avoid him & forget about ur feelings ..i know it's the hardest thing on earth but put ur self in his wife's situation...if you're married some1, would u like him to have an affair with another gurl?? imagine his kids (if he have any)...how are they gonna be raised..whenever u see him just imagine his kids & wife with their happy faces when he go back home...would u like to steal that from them? i don't think so...you're a nice lady & that's y you're confused &still thinking about this decision.. if u were mean u wouldn't have asked any1 u were just gonna go for it.
you'll find another man maybe in ur company who isn't married & can be completly yours..
2006-08-15 21:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by ღ♡♥SeNioriTa♡♥ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK OFF.
1>he is married.
2>HE is very much older than you are.
be careful not to put urself into a lifelong misery.get a cool single guy.they are all over.
2006-08-15 21:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it,this happened to me and it all ends in tears. Just imagine you were his wife, and he was cheating on you, you wound'nt like it, don't mess her life up, it's not here fault her husband can't control himself, i know it's hard but it's better in the long run for everyone, and you will find someone that is for you, someone you don't have to share with anyone.
2006-08-15 21:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a Maneater, makes you work hard
Makes you spend hard
Makes you want all, of his love
You're a maneater
makes you buy cars
makes you cut cords
makes you fall, fall in love
You're a Maneater, makes you work hard
Makes you spend hard
Makes you want all, of his love
You're a maneater
makes you buy cars
makes you cut cords
Wish you never ever met him at all!
- Nelly Furtado
Slightly 'altered' to make it more relevant. Enough said.
2006-08-15 21:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by bobby t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋