2006-08-15 21:34:50 · 19 answers · asked by mm_nn867 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well , marriage is all about commitment , family , happiness and love . if you go on and disagree your family , you will live with her alone in this world . well at least while your parents is alive keep close to them
2006-08-15 22:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by shady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that anybody can help since you live in a culture where the male or father arranges the marriage even if you don't love the man that your father has picked for you. It will take a young woman with a strong will to refuse the match your father has arranged. Then, try to convince your father that you love someone else and you want to break family tradition and chose your own husband... I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD IN YOUR EFFORTS TO CHANGE FAMILY TRADITIONS....!!!
2006-08-15 21:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stop fooling people , as many here are getting duped. last time u said u were a christian boy wanting to marry a muslim girl. how come u can change urself so well.
stop lying please.
caught u red handed lying
and if u really are a muslim girl then the marraige is invalid if u do not agree. it is haram in islam to marry a girl without her consent.
2006-08-15 21:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you have to do....
Don't you watch TV...
All Films and series in Egypt have such a case....
But My Advice, refuse the other one, but never make anything against the will of your parents.... Never lose them, just try to convince them...
2006-08-15 21:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by mohamed rakha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have so much more freedom in the USA. I feel sorry for you. If I were a woman living in the Middle East I would get to a Western country any way I possibly could.
2006-08-15 21:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Good Times, Happy Times... 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Odd but according to your other question you were a Christian boy wanting to marry a Muslim Girl. Who are you really?
2006-08-15 21:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Debra M. Wishing Peace To All 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not totally understand your message, i know you are trying to say something, but please do it again and say exactly what is going on,
i do not know if i can be of advice you can use, but i promise i will read it, and be sincere in my suggestions, and reply to you,,
i hope to hear from you and i am sorry for your pain,
2006-08-15 21:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very very hard but I still cannot help but say to you to fight for your love! Because it is your life and no one should live for you or make decision for you. Good Luck
2006-08-15 21:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your father forcing you to marry someone else?
it's terrible some societies force marriages on people like it's just close they wear, and not a relationship and personal happiness.
i hope you're okay
2006-08-15 21:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you will really be in trouble, who wouldn't be? if the one you love wouldn't end as your lifetime partner but somebody who is arranged by your family and totally alien to you....Hope you'll be brave enough to disagree for arranged marriage for the sake of love.....
2006-08-15 21:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋