I am serious dudes? Is it really intimidation.......do you assume we must be taken?
2006-08-15 21:34:41 · 17 answers · asked by WitchTwo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some of us are lothario and we're not stuck up or ignorant........there are some beautiful, intelligent, talented and nice women out there!
2006-08-15 21:44:49 · update #1
I always do Chris, and Chandu I know shyness thats why I usually say something to them in passing to start the conversation. I can be rather shy myself at times. I only go to one or two establishments when I go out and its for the dancing with my friends....but hey I can't help it if I am visually stimulated, that may get my attention but they have to hold it with their personality!
2006-08-15 21:49:19 · update #2
Cute guys feels intimidating by beautiful chicks because our standards are so high and that we don't settle for anything less. And another reason why they don't approach is because they are afraid of bruising their ego. Hope I answered your question amigo
2006-08-15 21:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your looking for hot guys in a club. If your going for looks that's all your going to find. Not to say that all nice guys are ugly, but people who hang out in clubs act a certain way. If you want to find a drunk you go to a bar. Find a nice guy in a park, or a church...just my two cents
2006-08-15 21:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by unitylife3105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times we feel that we are not good enough for a nice looking lady.When I was younger I felt that way. Now since I'm
old fat and ugly and still go out to clubs, the only ones who get after me are gay men. I wish women did me that way. There was a time
I didn't look too bad. oh well, Now I consider myself lucky that at least gay men want me, even though I'M not gay.
2006-08-15 21:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by CODY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the next time your out, and you see a beautiful girl minding her own business,you should approach her and ask her if she has a boyfriend and if not, start a conversation with her. Buy her drink, ask her if she is a college student, or something. Be yourself.....that is the important thing we look for. I have never really had a guy approach me, it has usually been me approaching them.
2016-03-16 22:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really intimidating to approach girls in clubs because we fear that the girls might be in a company of badboys and we will get beaten. My friend had this experience in front of my own eyes and have serious social stigma.
2006-08-15 21:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by tommyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are meat heads, and we need to refrain from embarrassing ourselves, while boosting your ego"s at the same time. So whats stopping you these days. I believe the glove of roles is now off yes? you take the risk for a change, you might not regret it.
2006-08-15 21:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by status quo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound conceited. And i am sure all the men in the bars can see through you. That is why you don't get approached.
2006-08-15 22:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do, a lot. Problem is, some girls aren't as hot as they think they are.
2006-08-15 21:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just scared of rejection.They normally already have a girl friend
2006-08-15 21:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls who THINK they are beautiful have nothing but attitude and we don't to deal with your bullshit.
2006-08-15 21:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋