okay i dont know wat i shood do my family doesnt care about me and all they do is make me feel like im not even there my other 2 brothers and 2 sisters get so much attention..
i dont be meen to any of them i hardly even talk to them anymore
me and my brother gage used to do lotsa fun things like play the ps2 together and stuff like that but yeah i feel real horible right now and i have so much more problems too my family maks me feel real bad and i think my mom tries to act like she cares but i knw she doesnt im a boy and im only 12 ill be 13 in dec but i hope i die in my sleep somday i cut myself alot everynite almost my family isnt the only thing that maks me feel like a loser nuthing in my life is good peopl at school call me afaggot evertime i walk down the halls and they think im homo cos i wear girl jeans people used to like me alot but now they dont i want to killmyself what can i do i get so frusterated and sad what can i doo????
please answer
2006-08-15 21:18:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Bleeding Star, there are usually teen hot-lines in every major city. You can even find them online by looking on yellow or white pages.com. Many of these are even operated by teens who can talk with you and understand what you are going through, offer resources and people who can help you in your situation. Here is an online hot-line site for teens (and operated by teens) that may be able to help you as well:
http://www.teenline.org/
As a mother and someone who has been through a lot of pain in my life...please know that this is a moment in time, a small part of your life that will pass, no matter how bad you feel right now. Your mother loves you...sometimes we moms are going through our own stuff and don't see the important things that are going on before our very eyes. Since no one on this site can help you directly, good luck witih finding someone nearby you that can. If your family is a member of a church, there are usually counseling services readily available there. Good luck, sweetheart.
2006-08-15 21:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by AMac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're just going through an awkward phase. Everyone does at your age.
I promise you that your family loves you if what you say is really true. There's no way that your other sibs get attention and everyone just dislikes you and that your mom doesn't care.
You're just down on yourself at the moment. It's all right. Everyone feels like this from time to time. Sleep it off, and in the morning you need to make a decison: You can either feel sorry for yourself and be a victim of your circumstances, or you can suck it up and start taking an active approach to improving yourself and your life. Commit to not letting anyone bother you who calls you a ******. At the end of the day, they're no better than you. Take up some hobbies to occupy your time and take your mind off of whatever is going on in your life that you think sucks so much. If you can get to a point where you're able to let the opinions of others roll off you and just enjoy each day, you'll look back on this as a character-building phase of your life.
2006-08-15 21:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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
2006-08-15 21:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate is such a heavy word for you to use dude. You are only turning 13 and life has so much to offer for you. You just need to understand why things like that are happening to you. Maybe you are not allowing your family to let them know you as you grow.
Keep an open communication with them, especially with your brothers and sisters. If you are the youngest, they love you that's for sure. But if you keep on throwing tantrums at them or your mom and dad, you're gonna have to deal with the effects of your actions. Be a kid for now and enjoy it while it last.
When you grow to be a young man, you might end up wishing that you were a kid...
2006-08-15 21:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mike_Cruiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever think of hurting yourself, I do believe your family love you and cares for you. But maybe they are busy with things, have time to understand them. Or if your bold to do some things get there attention, do what your sister and brother does to get the attention of your parents. I do believe that you can surpass this things...
homo? why? tell them how you really feel also. let them know your tired, with the way they treat you.. don't ever let you down OK?
2006-08-15 21:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is what you make it God loves you why not find a good church with a good youth group with people that will encourage you not put you down there are good people out there family willalways come up short on making you happy you have to make the choice to make yourself happy no wone will do it for you God loves you
2006-08-15 21:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a course in English Grammar and Composition; it will take your mind off your woes.
2006-08-15 21:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Brendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it,grow up and when you move out make your own family and disown your family you have now.it worked for me.
2006-08-16 02:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get over it. quit being so dramatic. families are always ****** up. live your life. be a strong person.
2006-08-15 21:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shood do with other aaaas u respect for yur.
2006-08-15 21:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by pr_meerut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋