i am 16 yrs old.i like a guy of my class.i don't think that he likes me.recently i noticed that one of my frnd has developed a crush on him. this is leading to frequent clashes btw me and my frnd.she always keeps on throwing tantrums on me.actually she lives near that guy's house so she sees him almost everyday .she keeps on telling me how much fun they have together.and i am really scared that the guy will develop a crush on her. i really luv that guy and am in a dilemma what to do?
2006-08-15 21:10:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he dating her?
If not, then it is open season on him.
It's his decision who he chooses to be with. Not hers.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 21:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 i really wouldn't worry about it, especially if you think he doesn't like you, why would you waste your time, if he can't see you for how good of a person you are then forget him, that and forget your friend too, i mean did she know how you felt about this guy? if she did then she truly isn't a friend for what she's doing, and more than likely the guy will turn out to be a prick anyway, and then he'll get with your friend and make her miserable, and you'll be able to sit back and be thankful that it never happened, god do i miss the good old high school days, nothing but drama, don't worry about it, seriously, find another guy, and this time don't tell your friend about him til after you're going out with him...good luck?
2006-08-16 04:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me at 16 you don't really love the the guy. You just have a lot of hormones working. Don't do anything stupid.
Just talk to the guy and find out if he like you. If he doesn't then move on.
2006-08-16 04:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical triangular love problem. You do not know whether he likes any of you two!! There can be a fourth person also!! Try your best to impress him without sacrificing your self esteem!! If he falls for you, well and good.If not, don't bother!! Look around you, you will find someone, probably better than him, earmarked for you!!!Show your "I don;t care" attitude to your girl friend and she will also come around!!!
2006-08-16 04:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See you are too young to do all this & think about guys. At this age all are good friends. Dont think other than a good friendship. Concentrate on your studies first. if you loose your studies that will be too bad then loosing a guy
2006-08-16 06:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love that guy, you have a crush on him....and you said you don't think he likes you. Maybe you should let it go and whatever happens happens. Your friend might be doing this to get under your skin. Stop reacting to it, act like you don't care and maybe she will stop. Maybe, they'll get together, either way, you don't really have a claim on him.
2006-08-16 04:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like this guy then try to talk 2 him in a friendly manner don't play a easy to catch keep ur distance and don't worry about ur friend if the boy has brains he will reailse about ur crush
2006-08-16 04:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by ash j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better step to the plate and tell this guy how you feel. And this friend doesn't sound like a good friend to me. One thing is it should be friends before a guy and she doesn't value you enough to stop hurting your feelings on purpose.
2006-08-16 04:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u first of all ask ur frnd that r they frnds or they are engaged,if not then i think u should propose that guy and convince him how much u love him i a sure that u will get ur love.
BEST WISHES FRM ME AS A FRND.
2006-08-18 02:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by saket the cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is love at 16 ? change of hormons and attraction towards opposite sex. It happens. don't bother to much about that guy. just enjoy sexy talk with your friends(Girls only). concentrate on your study.
2006-08-16 07:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by chupke chupke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear u are still too young to be crying for a boy.let him be u have a full life ahead of u.its just a crush give it timeit will go away or just ignor them & see what happens.
2006-08-16 04:18:12 · answer #11 · answered by ur wish is my command 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋