i am a sesitive man. i care about what women want and try to do everything for her. i'm 21 and still a virgin. even though i would like sex it is not near the top of my list. i would rather spend time just cuddling than tring to feel her up.
are more guys like me than the stariotypes or am i just really weird?
i'm not trying for a date i'm kinda taken. i am honestly curious.
2006-08-15 20:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not planing to change i was just wondering if the stariotypes were true.
2006-08-15 21:08:18 · update #1
Honestly, just please please PLEASE be who you are. you are different and yea you and the guy above are what a lot of girls want out there. but then again only the right ones deserve you. but just be who you are and trust me you will find the right person for you. I cant stress that enough. I am 21 also, never been in a relationship and stuff, and when i look around it seems like all the good guys dont even exist anymore. But you have really changed my perspective on that and i realize that there are good people in every corner of the world. Just be who you are, she is a very lucky lady to have you and i hope everything works out.
2006-08-18 14:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heh, I'm almost 23 and am In the same bout as you, my friend. I grew up in the country so it was less taboo to have good values, but once I moved to the city people were so shocked to find out I was still a virgin. Sorry to disappoint!
2006-08-16 04:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound kinda odd. Why go through all of that.
Your the batter at homeplate with only the power to hit a double or occasional triple. I don't know, I want to hit the home run you get more out of it.
2006-08-16 04:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a keeper! What a lucky woman. Unfortunatly that is not the norm for most men but dont you change! You sound like a wonderful person.
2006-08-16 04:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if they don't try to touch me sexually within a pretty short period of time I am going to be insulted and assume I do not turn them on..........I would rather be ravished because someone finds me enticing than think that they love me because they are not touching me.......yeah that references what my sisters thought meant their guys loved them.....only once they got married and they still weren't getting it very often who did they have to blame but themselves for not making sure their own sexual needs were being met?
2006-08-16 04:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar friend. he is 26! but is just wonderful, sensitive and all that makes friends best. and is not a wimp or sucker. real gentlman. these days it is unusual, but don't let the opinion of other people change you.
be yourself.
2006-08-16 04:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by ywe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im like that and even though girls say thats what they want, im still single, but i think thats mainly cos i don get many chances to meet single girls. so no ur not weird, well i hope ur not cos if u are then i am to.
2006-08-16 04:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by its all about me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest.. it's quite abnormal. cos you're already 21, you should have an eager to have sex with girls, not just cuddling.
2006-08-16 04:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awh aren't you a sweetheart don't change when a girl breaks your little heart. The one who appericates your sweetness will come along.
2006-08-16 04:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of guys the same way, and if anyone tells you different, tell them I said their fags.
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2006-08-16 04:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋