My ex bf and I are each other's first loves. Though today we still love each other dearly, we broke up for a valid reason. I explained to him why I thought that we should part, and though confused, he respected my decision, and we remained good friends with the mutual hope that we'd get back together. Fast forward one year. I'm a medical student about to enter my 3rd of 5 years and he finished a diploma course in electrical technology.However, he cant land a steady job. He's not considering college. So he migrates to another country, across 3 time zones, and doesn't tell me about it. We didn't have the chance to tell each other bye or anything.He said that he would have really loved the opportunity to marry me one day, but the way how things look, doesn't look like that is going to happen. He tells me to keep the faith, but I can't help crying and thinking that I blew a chance at the love of my life.should I move on and invite others into my life, or keep the faith he says to have?
2006-08-15 20:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by Heidi D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love him then don't let go. Above all else..PRAY for each other. You should bond under God's grace.Love does not always happen, if you lose it once..there is no guarantee you will find it again. If the guy told you he will be back for you, you have help him to make it happen. I mean, you can not just wait there..do something to somehow keep it..like even with the distance..do you still communicate with each other? updating each other? Communication is really vital.SOmetimes,the saying that goes..if you are meant to be..then at the end it will be the two of you BUT actually the decision of letting the one we love go or stay is in our hands.Remember, God gave us the freewill that sometimes the one He had blessed you is already in your arms BUT then you just let it slipped away.
The thing is..if you guys knew by heart that you love each other and you prayed for each other then stick with it. BUT when the time comes when you feel that he is the one moving away or he is not doing anything to work it out then it is time to let it go.It only means he is not worth the wait and not even the right one for you. hope this helps. God bless!
2006-08-15 21:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY LOVE HIM and you trust that HE LOVES U THE SAME WAY then there should be no doubt.....u should have faith in him and god and u will pass this tough time........Wish u luck
2006-08-15 20:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by FairyGodMother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, why wait you have a life and you may be waiting forever....
2006-08-15 21:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should keep faith
2006-08-15 20:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by confused guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋