I am getting married this Saturday and today over an educated focused argument with my fiance, I got an axiety attack and had to take my anti-depressant. Any tips on how to make these next few days more enjoyable.
2006-08-15 20:46:48 · 18 answers · asked by El Luigy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yeah, it's hitting you dude! I'm sure you have 856 million things going on right now. I'm glad you've got an anti-depressant. You may want to call in for an anti-anxiety to go along with it!
To make the next few days more enjoyable? I'd suggest keeping a journal - write down everything. You can burn it later if you want or it may be something fun to look at 10 years from now. Writing things down has a way of getting things out of your system - it's very therapeutic. Get a massage, too. But basically, find a way to enjoy this. This is the first major ordeal you and your honey will go thru. Find a way to make it manageable together - it's the first step in making it work. Don't sweat the small stuff, breathe and relax!
It's going down one way or the other, you might as well enjoy it! Laugh a little! Good luck sweetie!
2006-08-16 00:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kristi C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a scale of 1-10 they can be an 11. But now you're getting close to the end and you have to remember that whatever happens the wedding will happen and you will have great memories (maybe even funny ones).
The only problem is whether or not you're not longer sure you want to be married. Don't let panic or cold feet get in the way of what you must have really wanted when you proposed.
I suggest that you understand that your finace may be going through what you are and that you try not to react to everything that happens.
You only get married once. Why not relax and enjoy it. There will be food, dancing, drinking, family, friends. Try to focus on that.
2006-08-15 20:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a scale of 1 - 10 ? Probably more like a 15.. they can be REALLY stressful if you let it be. What you should be more focused on is the fact that you're getting married to the man you love than what color the flowers are going to be.
2006-08-16 01:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For god's sake don't argue! If you made it this far and are still together- the hard part is over! The planning should all be done and all you really have left to do are miniscule things that come up, wake up on Saturday, get dressed and show up on time!! It's nothing but a big party from here. The last week before my wedding was the smoothest!
2006-08-16 00:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-15 20:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking at about a 15 on the stress level. My only recommendation would be to go do something that you haven't had time to do or grab a couple of friends and catch a movie or have a spa day, but warn them that talking about the wedding is a major no-no.
Good luck!
2006-08-16 06:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first wedding was 15 on a scale of 1-10 because I had a meddling mother-in-law to be, a sulking brother who insisted his friends be invited and 300 guests to satisfy.
My second wedding was 0 on a scale of 1-10 because we just eloped. Best thing I ever did and I recommend it to anyone who doesn't want any stress.
2006-08-15 21:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off congrats and secondly on a scale from 1-10 i'm going to go with a 10 because i'm planning a wedding and it is stressing me out big time.don't get me wrong i'm having fun planning it but yet at the sametime is is also very stessfull.Best of luck on you're wedding Saturday.And just remember to breath on you'er wedding day and everything will be just fine.
2006-08-16 01:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meditation and herbal supplements? There isn't really any other way to make such a hectic time any less so. Try and set aside some quiet time to spend with your fiance NOT talking about or worrying about the wedding. Good luck and best wishes!
2006-08-15 20:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off congradulations. and second stress it normal you just have to find a way to relax gather your thoughts and take things one at a time. If you try to do so much at once that will happen so to avoi an attack try to keep a cear head and relaxe you are getting married its supposed to be the happiest time of your life not the most stressing
2006-08-15 20:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by neeper_52732 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋