2006-08-15 20:46:23 · 23 answers · asked by AriS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yup...i have a friend who was 11 (she is a girl)and fell in love with a 16 year old(who is a boy) and now She is 20 and He is 25 and they are boyfriend and girlfriend...so in this case ya its possible even for those 2 to be together
2006-08-15 20:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all for falling in love you dont need to be capable. All you require is a blooming heart that starts beating for somebody. But dear, at 13 you are not matured enough and your heart overpowers your mind and you may move away from your actually goals unknowingly. But if you cant help it, at the end of day just see that your other activities like studies and your responsibility and attitude towards parents isnt changing. If yes then you are going wrong way and really then you are not capable.
2006-08-15 21:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by ariesaregudfriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, love in its purest form? Yeah. Does he have a good head on his shoulders though? Will he be able to provide for you, and protect you financially? That last one is probably a no.
So while he may give you that connection that you get from love, it is not realistic or logical to persue a relationship like that at such a young age where you're both still developing as individuals.
I would say that it more of an infatuation( A feeling of love, probably brought on from lust, or finding someone who likes you for you, or that you feel "gets you".)
I'm not trying to discourage you, it just comes from experience that as you get older you change just a *little* bit.
2006-08-15 20:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, VERY MUCH SO. Elvis met Priscilla when she was 15 and he 19 or 20
Bill wyman of the rolling stones met a 13 year old when he was 47 and married her when she was 18.
R KELLY was caught romancing a 15 year old
and Jerry Seinfeld dated a 17 year old when he was in his 30
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2006-08-15 20:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the age gap really makes a huge difference when you're that young. Three years apart in your twenties is much less significant than in your teens. You're still in different stages of your lives right now (maturity-wise), maybe putting this relationship on hold until you're older would be the mature/smart thing to do.
2006-08-15 20:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by wupierto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no a 13 yr old girl cannot be in love with a 16 yr old. the girl is still young and so has not met many guys yet. so she prob has a crush on him, but it should fade during time
2006-08-15 20:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Scientifically, girls attain puberty at around 12-13 years and I've seen plenty of 13-14 yr old girls having older bfs.
2006-08-15 20:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 year olds cant fall in love =P you just think its love, you dont even know what love is.
2006-08-15 20:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love cos ur both only kids, its just a crush or lust. it has nothing to do with age cos when he is say 26 u will be 23 and noone will even mention the age gap. but i can assure you that it is not love.
2006-08-15 20:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are definatly agiasnt the odds..its around a 1- 684,923 chance that this will actually be love
way to young to understand and being able to fully grasp the concept
2006-08-15 21:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Juggernaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋