I am dating this girl that I met. She seemed fantastic and all my friends liked her. She was really shy about being intimate but I decided to be patient since I cared. One night I couldn't take it, she was rimming me and I wanted to please her so I told her I would go down on her. The lights were off and I took off her underwear and a 7" uncircumcised penis came out above her vagina! I totally freaked out! She has both and I am not sure what to do. I care about her but I don't know if I can bring myself to give her head. Would it be gay to do that or give a reach around? I am so confused!
2006-08-15 20:44:31 · 18 answers · asked by jesus KRIEST 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not into that leave her....
2006-08-15 21:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a girl your dealing with there. If your into women stick to women. That is not a defect. I would keep that person as a friend only. Nothing intimate. I would have to ask myself how many people knew about this? Also, do any of my friends know the real story here?
2006-08-16 03:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a cruel word to use "defect". . . you're not worth a friend!
since you like her and getting intimate what's there being a secret, you're about to expose it all?
talk about it, medical science is so advance. whats the difference if she's a true woman or unless?
love knows no boundaries?
dont give up so easy, a close relationship is not easy to come by.
2006-08-16 03:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's a tough one. Go with your gut feeling. See what feels right for you. Do whatever you want to do. Don't be afraid to experiment. But, do make sure that she is an hermaphodite and not a gay guy.
2006-08-16 03:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by El Luigy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a hamorphadite having both genders really sad but if she had told you would you have run like hell most times only one has feeling in it if so and she acts like a woman have the penis removed .it can be done. don't cut and run if you love her. help her if you can good luck bud
2006-08-16 03:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because somone is a hermaphodite it dosnt mean u cant have a physical relationship. and actualy hermaphodites are quite rare because i think only one is born like every 6 or 7 years.
if you love somone then it dont matter about any diffrences.
2006-08-16 03:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she lied (or hid) her "condition" then she is probably not comfortable with herself, and in this case, you are better off with someone who is more emotionally stable. that's if you are looking for a relationship. if you are just looking for sex, then continue seeing her (without giving her head).
2006-08-16 03:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by S T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a hermaphrodite.... which means she have both genitals. It happens.
Just forget about the penis.... do nothing to it.... do everything else.
2006-08-16 03:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u lying??? I hope you are. She needs to take care of that, man what kind of parents did she have, That's sad. I don't know what to tell you too do.
2006-08-16 03:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice story. Go ahead and do whatever you want with her and her 9 virgin sisters.
2006-08-16 03:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CAN'T BELIEVE SOME OF THE ANSWERERS ARE TAKING THIS ONE SERIOUS.
Now it has got to be fun to be that oblivious.
2006-08-16 12:22:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋