have u ever been in love? if yes have u made love with ur lover? wd u be able to love ur husband or wife with same passion & enthusiasm if u get married to someone other than ur lover. will u ever be able to love anyone that way again with same intensity????
2006-08-15 19:59:12 · 19 answers · asked by i am alive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did u ever have sex with ur bf/gf? will u be able to love ur hubby/wife with same passion? wont ur ex be reflected in ur present???
2006-08-15 20:24:24 · update #1
Hi, I am not sure you are man or woman. Well, if you are a man its not that difficult to love your wife with the same passion as your g/f. Of course there are men whose past love affairs keep haunting them. But most of the time they can contain their feelings and show their passionate side to their wives. On the otherhand, a woman by nature is quite different. In most cases a woman cannot really hide her feelings well and their past love affairs could be a real threat to their current relationship. Even in passionate moments with her husband she feels 'lost' and longs to be with her b/f or lover. This is because a woman usually gets more emotionally involved in a relationship and takes a longer time to adjust herself well with a new love.
(Btw, this reasoning does not apply to men and women who are free thinkers and don't care for who they fall in love with and what kind of married lives they want to have....!)
2006-08-15 21:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really "I am alive""!!I don't have any experience of loving someone before my marriage and did not get a chance to compare the ones with that girl and my wife!!But let me visualise......when you start "loving" your girl and not longing her for mere company & sex, it becomes an intimate affair.Hearts are interchanged and it reaches an emotional level.Then it will be difficult to pretend that nothing has happened and start loving your new wife.A capable wife will be able to mask the effects in his mind to great level, but total amnesia is not possible.Its also natural that you will start comparing each intimate activity with the ex & present, eventhough you may not show it openly.All FIRSTS are firmly embedded in your mind and the subsequent ones only add up to the next and cannot substitute the first!!!!
2006-08-16 04:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't ever love the same love twice in your life ,,
once u tried this strong love feeling in your life then u r lucky and don't ask for it a second time coz u won't have it again ,, what may happen again could be also love but with another way ..
and as they are saying : marry someone u love to live with not the one u can't live without ..
2006-08-16 03:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by romeo4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I've ever been in love.
Maybe two times where I *could* have been in love but I use the term sparingly.
Of course I can love my wife... I will have met hundreds of ladies and pinpointed the best one so I'm sure she'll be fab. Otherwise I wouldn't marry her yet...
2006-08-16 03:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOA! Well.................touchy subject for me actually. I've been in love once, yea and he was by far, my greatest love in everyway possible. We still talk, but nothing else. A part of me wants him to be the last guy I'm with. The one I end up getting to spend my life with. But I dunno if it'll happen. And if it doesn't, I really don't know if I'll feel the same way about someone else. But if it's not him, then I do hope I feel more in love with the new guy than what I did have. Otherwise, that would suck. But I really don't know what to expect.
2006-08-16 03:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love although not seen or talked to her in the past 2 years as she got married to another guy.. I do love her still.
However as I can't change it I am not sad...Infact I am happy coz I think she is more happy with that guy had she been with me.
Lastly..Do not let your past ruin your present as your present can sure ruin your future..
We meet all kind of people some of them stay for a longer period than others. We should thank God that he let us meet some interesting people and move forward rather than thinking about them and ruining our lives
2006-08-16 04:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i haven't made love like that in a very very long time you brought back memory of my x- girl friend that i had many years ago
that was the last time i was really in love to that intence and i really wish i could find love that again i pray to god every night for him to bless me with a gf,or a wife for me and my 2 little girls
2006-08-16 03:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a wife, to look after you and do her duties to you, then say you're working late and take on a lover for your lust, that's what my husband does to me
2006-08-16 03:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ive bin in love n m still in love
yeah to sum extent
no its to love sum1 with same passion
like i said no cant love any1 wid same intensity
yeah ex wud refect in me present if i dn get married to me lover
swear i listened to me heart
2006-08-16 18:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes love is just a feeling you will find someone better some day
2006-08-16 03:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋