How do you forgive?

Answer 1

It's something felt in your heart, when you have become comfortable with who you are, then you know no-one can take away your happiness or cause you pain forever, you have control over how you feel. You can actually say I forgive this person, maybe you need to repeat it several times and pray for help to do so, but you can forgive anyone, for they know not what they do!

Answer 2

Forgive? What is this you are saying? Sorry, I am not good at forgiving. I wish I were better at it. I am known for paying people back when they hurt me intentionally. In my eyes there is nothing more sweet than revenge. If you hurt me emotionally I will emotionally devistate you in one way or another. Geeee I sound like such an a**. Funny, people don't mess with me much.

I can say that I am forgiving if someone hurts me without meaning to. I mean we are all human and we make mistakes.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Hate is a strong word but one Im able to attach to a few individuals on this planet. I pray to God often that he will give me the wisdom and strength to forgive these people. I really dont want to forgive them but I know that God wants me to forgive them as he forgives us so I ask for his help. Im stubborn though, I still havent forgiven them.

Answer 4

First remember the Lord's prayer:"..forgive us our tresspasses as we forgive those who tresspass against us...". The meassure you use for others shall be the same one used for u.-imagine that.
Second, it is more costly to hold a grudge than to give it up.so forgiveness is better for you and less costly.
How then:Ask the Lord for the grace to forgive. Then,meet the person in question and tell that you forgive them for whatever it is that thy did or did not do. Move on from there.

Answer 5

I think I'm good at forgiving, lol... My family always tells me I'll be mad at someone one minute and happy the next... Anyway, you just imagine that the person said they are sorry, and that's it. Tell yourself "don't be mad". You basically have to think of what that person did from their point of view. What made them do it? Are they going through personal problems? Had a bad childhood? No one is perfect, so whoever you're mad at made a mistake just like all humans. Never judge people, everyone has a soft spot. Think of the soft spot in the person you are trying to forgive. Hope this helped!

Answer 6

I always say if God always forgives us, how come we cannot forgive?
Time is all you need, you cannot forgive the very next day, you need time to cool your feelings and to make sure that the person is worthy of your forgiveness. don't push yourself it will come if you really want to forgive.

Answer 7

hi there to forgive you have to settle youre thought s regarding whats ever happened you have to come to terms with it and as you come to trerms you can then talk to the person that involved in this situation and explain that you will forgive them but you wontforget and with time you will or could forget ,ive been in situation and i did also say to the other person that if that ever happens again that will be our friendship over ....it never has happened again and our friend ship is really strong take care x

Answer 8

Not easy actually ...but in life we've to learn to forgive & forget...otherwise you'll be stressed out . Put all the problems far far away while trying to solve them . Do remember Barking dog seldom bite...sometimes never...so why worry .

Things happen with a reason ...at least now you know what kind of a person he/she is .....just watch your step next .........have a positive view & don't use your emotion too much...........

Just focus on yourself & be happy...after all we don't know how long we're going to live .....GOD Bless you !

Answer 9

You can forgive just about anything except for a cheater, drunk, and lying husband or mate that abandons you and your children of over 20 years.Life is too short to hold grudges..enjoy it and move forward.

Answer 10

One has to forgive him or her self before he or she can forgive others.