2006-08-15 18:56:56 · 17 answers · asked by MAYRA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shouldn't be. If it's meant to be, it shouldn't be so hard. Sure you'd have to work at it, but true love should make each person want to do things for the other so issues are never that big!
Aside from that, many people seem to have acquired "baggage" over the years and these little voices too. Somehow these voices are very good at sabotaging relationships because they want to keep the person so safe and sound when sometimes you just have to turn that voice off and live life!!!
2006-08-15 19:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess because often at times the person you love does not love you back with the same passion but instead loves someone else who does not love him/her back but also loves another thus a chain of heart struggles and pain this makes it really hard however there are those who are lucky enough to love and be loved back with tha same passion this is very hard to get but achievable if we could see a person in the eyes of God instead of society
the society dis-credits other people as old fashioned, dumb, "not with it" we end up leaving this great people for what the society will call classy cultured etc etc thus makes it difficult to love the right guy
2006-08-15 19:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily hard as with anything in life if you want it to work you have to make it work. Sure some things might be harder or take longer. But as long as you can and are willing to put forth the effort it will work one way or another. And most things in life that are easy are usually too good to be true.
2006-08-15 19:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by n8boi02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if it was easier we would never learn to appreciate the small and simple things like cuddles and spooning and the menaing of I love you. Plus we learn from our mistakes and hopwfully take what we learn and try not do it again.
2006-08-15 19:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz pain is love . Love is abt ur spirit and heart and most imp Compromise n ppl normally neav compromise coz they are greedy no one is a god so get the fact straight and keep ur expectations low n love will be as ecy as it can be, one more problem in love is physical desire and attention dude wait up dunt jump into a well too quickly.............................
2006-08-15 19:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by UAI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if it is that hard....then it really isn't love. True love should feel easy.
2006-08-15 19:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the good things in life are not easy........if they were we wouldn;t appreciate them or put serious effort into them....love is hard so we obtain it....we are a little more ready to give love to our partner.
2006-08-15 19:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by nightcricket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everything is hard. But your right it is damn hard. It all works out eventually though.
2006-08-15 19:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Roger S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because anything worth having comes with a little pain.
2006-08-15 19:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by poutypitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if it soft you would not like it its better hard i hope were in the same subject
2006-08-15 19:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by liz_805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋