r u afraid to die?

Question

i am so afraid of leaving this earth i have three wonderful children and i want to be with them forever.they are my life and so is my husband. i really never want to leave them.how can i stop feeling so scared

Answer 1

Is there something going on that would make you feel this way? Sometimes a tramatic occurance can make this happen and get the feelings of death out of perspective.
As you get older you will find that death is only natural and if the faith in God is there, you will find peace in that.
I never want to leave my son either, but if I were to stay I have to consider the consequences, I'd never change age, I'd have to keep making new friends and they would keep dying, My son would die and I would still be here, there would not be anyone left that I knew. So, in the other side of this question, I'd like to be able to be with my loved ones again and that would make death the ultimate and the best thing that could happen.
Put your faith in yourself and God and you will find the way to be with your children all of their lives, in their heart and soul. You will find a way to put your heart at peace and live with the full circle of life.
You will come out of this, but please don't dwell on it. If you still feel unnaturally worried consult your doctor. There maybe a chemical imbalance that could make you more worrysome.
My thoughts and prayers are with you....it will be fine.

Answer 2

I think everyone has a phase when they are scared to die. I used to be scared that I would die before I had kids or had a family. But I've learned that I've been brought this far for a reason and he's not done with me just yet. We will always fear what is unknown afterall that is what makes us human. Just pray and have faith that you're raising your children well and shower them and your husband with all the love they can give. That way you'll never have any regrets. Pray for your life to be guided in the right direction and it will.

Answer 3

Dying is a natural part of life. If you can hold the positive thought that it will be the beautiful experience and that you can forever lwatch over your children when you are gone, then maybe this is what can help you deal with it. And depending on what your spiritual beliefs are you can also find solace in the thought that you may even be able to giude them and be apart of many aspects of their lives even though you may physically not be there.

Answer 4

Sometimes I have similar thoughts. One lifetime just isn't enough to spend with the ones who mean everything to us. We have to make the most of the time we have with them. When my daddy died, I thought my world had come to an end. I was heartbroken, but I had no choice but to go on and carve out a life for myself without him. And he would want me to be happy. It's the same for all of us. We all have to leave our children eventually, but they'll take you with them throughout life...in their memories, in their hearts, in the stories they tell their children. And one day they will probably feel for their children what you are feeling now. It's just part of the life cycle. You don't want to look back twenty years from now and see that you spent all your time worrying about the inevitable. Enjoy your life with them. They're lucky to have such a devoted wife and mother.

Answer 5

If you don't have an illness or something along those lines you shouldn't worry too much. Enjoy your life and live it to the fullest. I also have three great children and a great husband, but I focus every day on loving them and taking care of them.

Answer 6

I'm not, but I don't have anyone that really depends on my or that loves me in that way. I'm sure that if I had a familly I would also feel scared,However, your thoughts create your reality, if your afraid from dying all the time, you are atracting death. Just live each day as if it were the last one and enjoy the time you have left in earth.

Answer 7

No, I am not afraid to die. I am just afraid to leave my kids. But everyday I talk to them, tell them I love them, help them all that I can each day.
I do not always do things that they like, especially school work. But I know that if I have to leave, they will know that I love them.
For now, I hope to be with them for a long time, till they are ready to take care of themselves.
Don't think of dead, think of the love you have each minute of the day for them.

Answer 8

Funny just had a conversation about this two days ago with my husband and my mother...None of us are afraid of dying, now when were younger yes we all were afraid to...I think when you get older and your kids are grown, i think its part of what your brain just does, it becomes OK. And a question i posed to them, how would we remember how, when and why we died, we would be dead, whats to remember??? I think I confused them lol....
What you need to do is stop thinking about it, when its your time, its your time and hopefully its not for a really long time and enjoy every waken moment with those you love and make sure you tell them everyday you love them .

Answer 9

IT will be biggest lie of someone say he is nopt afraid to die.

death i guess is scariest thing , leaving everything man even thoguth of that i just go numb sometime,
man i totally agree with you i am scared too i dont want to leave my loved ones

but hey you know -- just for that one scary moment lets not waste this moment , fcccckn see you such a lkucky person you are living 5 life --- you your husband and 3 beautiful kids

even if you leave now - you leave yuor presence behind you i form of kids imagie me - i am just 23 i wasted all my years in a wish to be where you are have a family and respect and presence
you are lucky !!!!! you dont want to be in my shoes

Answer 10

Every day that I wake up I realize that it could be the last time I see the sunrise... so let it be it... let me go with my head up. I pray... but I don't pray for me, I pray for those I leave behind. I cannot tell you to live each day as if it's your last... that is nearly an impossible feat. I do say everytime you say goodbye to your love ones, make sure you leave them with a smile... for that will be the best memory they will keep.