is there something wrong with me? or is he doing something behind my back? i mean i dont want to be all stupidly in love with him, i always have my back and never put my heart out for a guy unless i can really feel it. so why am i feeling this way?
2006-08-15 18:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by crysthy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had this problem with my girlfriend for a while. I then reassured her that I wasn't cheating. I told her look, I work two jobs, one midnight to eight (full time in the goverment) the other either in the morning(8:30-2:00) or in the evening (4:00-10:30) this is a store. This varies a little bit. So I told to just call the jobs or my cell. I will let you know when I'm off. I also sleep too. Also I told her how do you think I can afford to take you shopping, out to eat, give you little treats and maintain myself. All that takes time. I don't have time to cheat. Just trust me. Your the one with all the time.
Sooner or later your going to have to give him a chance to prove his trust to you. Even if he has to spell it out to you. If he's cheating you will found it out. But like in my case he may be just busy.
Also a good piece of advice, don't go looking for something you don't want to see.
I pretty much give my woman what she wants with in reason. It easier to get her (or them) what they want then it is to fight with them. I don't like putting a lot of effort into fighting with someone.
2006-08-15 18:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're smart. If you have a bad feeling about something, you're usually right. At least that's been my experience. Don't ever fall so blindly in love where you get taken advantage of. You're fine the way you are, there's nothing wrong with you.
Also, as far as your boyfriend, if you are unhappy, then you should move on. It's hard, I know. It took me several years to get rid of my last boyfriend, who was a total scumbag. There's so much out there, you don't need to waste your time with anyone who isn't worth it.
Good luck.
2006-08-15 18:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have natural instincts... I would say trust yours. If you don't buy it, something is up with him. Did you have a bad past relationship where some jackass guy cheated on you? If that's the case, then maybe talking to your boyfriend about it will help clear things up--tell him that you need a little more support when it comes to things like that because of past experiences. Good luck :)
2006-08-15 18:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason you're not "feeling" it. There is nothing wrong with you. If you don't trust him and you don't believe that he loves you, that's not a good way to go in a relationship. It should just come naturally. Go with your gut feelings. I noticed that you didn't state that you love him, so move on.
2006-08-15 18:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by ginger sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are justified in feeling like that..however you have to find out why that feeling comes to your mind.
1) Is it because of your Natural Instinct/Sixth sense?
2) Is it because of some bad experiences in past with other men?
3) Is it because some friends of your had bad experiences with men?
4) Is it because of some strange behavior by your BF?
If it is because of 1,2,3..do not worry to much about it and believe in your bf.
It it is due to 4..then do not believe him outright!(be cautious)
2006-08-15 18:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by kulkarnidg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u something if u don't trust him why are u wasting ur time with a guy like that MABYE in ur heart u may LOVE him but also its not ALWAYS about the heart it aslo what u feel and ur instines
2006-08-15 18:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by MEXICAN PRIDE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the present boyfriend. 8 cases interior the previous 5 months? to hell with that--you will get checked for STDs. and for his cheating strategies, tell him you have herpes at a similar time as you wreck up with him, just to work out him squirm.
2016-11-04 22:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut feeling. i do. majority of the time men are doing something that keeps you thinking. so keep your back and let him go. you cant and wont get anywhere without trust.
2006-08-15 18:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like that, i got over it and am now in a great relationship!!!! but remember you cant have a relationship without trust! if you want to talk you can email me at dramaqueen72206@yahoo.com!
2006-08-15 18:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you aren't ready to be in a relationship. I'd let him go and try being single for awhile until you're ready to try it again.
2006-08-15 18:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋