My ex broke up with me 6 months ago, because all she cared about was being sexually satisfied, but i wanted true love. She called me useless and dumped me. Last week, when i got to work, she was there at my job. She was sitting in the cafeteria with her aunt, who i work with. I ignored her, didn't say a word to her, and walked right out of the cafeteria. Her aunt then called me the next day, gettin on my case for not speaking to her, tellin me that it really hurt her feelings. My question is to you all is, Was i wrong for not acknowledging her? Or do u all understand why i ignored her, after what she did to me. Give me your honest opinions
2006-08-15 18:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU did the RIGHT/CORRECT thing. She shouldn't expect any more or any less from you. YOU both are HISTORY now. You OWE her NOTHING!
2006-08-15 18:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the Aunt why you ignored her, then tell the Aunt she should mind her own bussiness, that this is/was between you and your ex.
And yes you did the right thing.
Its great to see a guy that wants more than 1 thing.
Kudos to YOU!
2006-08-16 01:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was her fault for dumping you. Look at it this way...if you guys never met, you probably wouldn't talk to her. So after she broke up with you, it was like you've never met before, so why would she be mad if you decide not to talk to her. She should leave her aunt out of this since it's your relationship. Actually, did she wanted to be your friend after she dumped you?! I don't know..but this girl can't make up her mind! oiy...good luck
2006-08-16 01:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F her Aunt and keep Ignore'n her. Females that do that think the grass is greener on the other side until its gone. Keep doin you thing.
2006-08-16 01:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Imrickjamesbeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two ended on bad terms i can totally understand why you acted the way you did. if a long time had passed tho you might have wanted to go up and see how she was doing
2006-08-16 02:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by viper8641 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are right in doing so....If she is self centered then she deserve this...Also you should convey your message to her clearly that this is the reason why you are behaving in such manner, so that she should know that she had done something wrong....Try to divert your mind from the issue.
2006-08-16 01:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by jasarora07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not in the wrong at all. You don't owe her anything. She's lucky you didn't walk up to her and spit in her food.
2006-08-16 01:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by DIRT MCGIRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone think different but she needs to get her satisfiction but if thats all she cares about so just she not worth it
2006-08-16 01:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you were right. It has been six months. She can't have it both ways.
2006-08-16 01:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, *** her. that ***** doesnt deserve you to be nice to her. tell her aunt to mind her own f'n business.
2006-08-16 01:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋