My boyfrinnd is giving me hints he is gonna kiss me and I never have been kissed before. I reallly love this guy but im nervous for my first kiss. Im overly nervous like im feeling sick and im shakey and i have a bad case of butterflies. ne one wanna give me good advice to make me feel better and clam down and not be nervous when he kisses me?
2006-08-15 18:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by Mae-Day 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax. Take a deep breath.....
Believe me, it will come naturally and it's fun.
And kissing is all about practicing exploring with somebody you like.
Here are some tips:
It's best to kiss with your heads off-set at an angle.
Always try to swallow before you kiss. Moist, not wet.
Get your hands in on the action. Caress his face, hold his neck and pull him to you.
Suck and nibble the lips in between the tongue-probing.
Every now and then, detour away from the lips, elsewhere on the face.
Don't dominate the kisses. You are kissing together.
Stop in time. Make him want to come back for more.
2006-08-16 19:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by cordefr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is a delicate art and must be taken slowly with a new partner. A good kisser knows how to pace themselves, has an active imagination, and understands what their partner likes or may not expect, but will enjoy. When kissing, remember the following: never slobber, don't stare, try not to belch, always pay attention with your non-visual senses (touch, hearing, ESP, etc.), and there is no such thing as too slow.
If you are unhappy with a kiss then chances are your partner is going to feel the same way. The best thing you can do is relax, and not just in your body, but your face, lips, neck, everywhere. Be relaxed and confident with how you kiss. Let yourself go with the flow of the moment and savour every second of it. While you are kissing, remember to use your hands, nose, and breath to entice your partner's senses. Everyone enjoys being touched anbd caressed while being kissed. Use your hands to gently caress the cheek, the jawbone, the back, arms, and collarbone. A gentle exhalation of air, that does not smell foul, can provide your partner with extremely light, warm feelings on their face, mouth, and neck that can be quite arousing.
Never "attack" someone when you kiss them, unless they like that sort of thing, and most people don't. Treat their lips like you would a dangerous creature. Move in slow and prepare for the kiss. Initial contact should be lips only, firm, yet gentle. React to how your partner is kissing. If they speed up, speed up with them. If they slow down, follow suit. Try to synchronize your actions with one another and always pay attention to their body language.
The following is a list of some simple techniques to spice up a kiss:
Triumverat
Kiss between the eyes, on the tip of the nose, and then on the lips.
Top and Bottom
Kiss the top lip, then the bottom lip, then both.
Lickable Lips
Run the tip of your tongue along your partner's lips.
Earlobecstacy
Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on the earlobe.
Facial Lines
Trace the neck and jawbone with your lips and tongue.
The Big Tease
Kiss everywhere but the lips, until your partner pulls you to their lips.
Caressed Lips
Rub your finger gently across their lips and then go in for a kiss.
Sensuality
Look in their eyes and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs', caress their lips with yours and then give her/him a passionate kiss.
Cheeky
Gently brush cheeks with your partner.
Eskimo Kiss
Gently rub the tips of your noses together.
Butterfly
Brush eyelashes with your partner. Make a fluttering motion of the eyelash by quickly opening and closing the eye.
Rose Petals
Make a small "O" with your lips. Press your lips against your partner's skin and suck softly. Lift your lips off a little, move over slightly, and repeat.
2006-08-15 19:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by ~♥vaginamonologue♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy the ride...Kissing is a lot of fun...Don't make a mountain out of a molehill...If you screw up somehow, which you won't but if you do all you gotta tell him is "That one was just practice, Lets try one for real now" I'm sure you'll get no disagreement from him.
2006-08-15 18:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to relax and enjoy it. Take it slow in the beginning. It might not be amazing at first, but practice makes perfect ;)
2006-08-15 19:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyladybug42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and go with the flow. Start off slow and then ,well things will go from there. Good luck.
2006-08-15 18:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by UT Longhorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous. Just calm down and have a good time. Remember: Be happy of who you are.
2006-08-15 18:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! that's ok---its a perfectly normal response! just relax and enjoy the moment. there's only ONE first kiss----relax and enjoy it!
hell, i still remember MY first kiss---back in the days before we had electricity! she was a sweetheart---cute as a button---wow!
relax---and enjoy it---you'll treasure the memories forever.
2006-08-15 18:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋