I´ve always been a good boy until the day i almost killed 2 of my friends just becuz y was very angry now most of my friends hate me for that and now i feel so useless. The person that i loved also died long time ago now but i cant forget her and the only way to kill the pain is to kill myself
2006-08-15 18:14:08 · 18 answers · asked by XDarKxLinKx 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
No, it's not ok.
You need to call this number: 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)
NOW...don't wait, don't do anything...just call
2006-08-15 18:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is never a OK to kill yourself. If you believe in God... understand that suicide cant be an option... God loves you and forgives you for ANYTHING you have done... and He will forgive you for anything you may do in the future. Also, you should know that the pain you will cause for those around you if you do kill yourself will be greater than any pain or hate you think people feel for you now.
I dont even know you, but I am hurting for you now. I beg you not to kill yourself. Please talk to a police man, a councelor, a doctor or anyone you can.
Most important, don't worry about what will happen if you tell the people around you that your thinking of killing yourself. You can get help and I swear... you will look back on this one day and realize that the best thing you did was not commit suicide.
God bless you, and please, please speak to someone who can help you get passed this.
Shalom
2006-08-16 01:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by marc m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't make the people around you happy if you kill yourself. They will be grief striken, especially your family. I've lost loved ones too and didn't think I'd ever get over the pain of the loss but I did. I haven't ever forgot them, but the mourning does end in it's own time. What you need to do is ask the two friends you almost killed and the people who are mad at you for forgiveness. Apologize sincerely to them. Even if they don't forgive you right away, you will have done your part to reach out to them. Also, do what you can to resolve the issue you were so angry with your two friends over. Finally, ask God for forgiveness and healing. If you pray sincerely, He will forgive you and help you get through your mourning. Please do not commit suicide! You will not go to heaven if you do.
2006-08-16 01:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a selfish decision to do this. Dont do it as I think you got a whole lot of good life to live. Own your self and own your actions which almost killed your friends. Nobody will be happy if you are gone. (That includes me now)
Write a letter to the two people explaining what you feel and promise to win back thier trust.
Keep trying with these people and show them that yu are a good friend. Dont kill you because the world will not be the same.
See a councellor who will help you.
And also you are the creator of your thoughts and if they get too much you have to tell your head that "My thoughts do not own me, I am the creator of thse thoughts". I know where you are coming from as I have been there before and I am glad to be here and alive!!! PM if you need to talk xxxxx
2006-08-16 01:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As aposed to being a victim of other people asshole syndrome. Get off your bum and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You know you need help so get out there and get it. I think its wonderful that you have opened up and started to take the initiative to get help. There is nothing worse then feeling like dirt but only you can fix it. Take up a new hobbie. A sport or even something musical. Put your focus into that but dont avoid your problem. Get it out and make sure it stays out. Get some self respect and realise you have made mistakes but your not going to pay for these with your life. Acknowledge what you almost did to your 2 friends when you were angry and see it from their side. Saying sorry does not always work.... Neither does begging for forgiveness. Forgive yourself first and stop feeling sorry and helpless. Seek the help you need. I truely hope things work out.
You get one shot at life so dont take it for granted
Best of luck my friend.
2006-08-16 01:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by FroomeSTAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person above. See a doctor and psychologist - you owe it to the person you love to get some help for yourself! Bring along your friends to sessions with you, and if they won't come with you to try and patch things up, they weren't worth your friendship to begin with. Get out of the house and find some new friends :)
2006-08-16 01:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please don't. You should go see a therapist, or a doctor that could help you with your problem because you sound really depressed, and being depressed isn't a fun way to live. Always remember that God loves you, and theres always light at the end of the tunnel. :)
2006-08-16 01:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sonya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Please don't. if you are really feeling blue, go to the hospital. See a therapist. Bring your friends in to the session and try to patch things up. But don't lose hope. Things will ge better. Believe in yourself. You can do it.
2006-08-16 01:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not a good idea. Life goes on and the pain goes away.
2006-08-16 01:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ron D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we've all lost...i personally lost a boyfriend when we were young..it hurts..but the best thing to do is move on...it may take a long time but you can be strong enough to push forward...she would have wanted that....
2006-08-16 01:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Haylow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you out of your mind!
if you tempt to do suicide people would think you are insane!
man there's much to enjoy in life!
why not try to engage yourself into sports or anything you wanted to do.
also try psychiatric help for some enlightenment!
dude life is too short to be wasted!
2006-08-16 01:23:38 · answer #11 · answered by gizmo_crackhead 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋