Ok.. im kind of a shy guy and theres this one girl that i have spotted...and i really want 2 get 2 know her...any suggestion on how 2 start a conversation with her? AND PLEASE.. BE HELPFUL...
2006-08-15 17:44:44 · 27 answers · asked by stballazfinest87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her like you would with any other girl.
For more info go see She's the Man
2006-08-15 17:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
More guys need to take a look at my question from a day ago: "Have guys forgotten the art of the introduction"
It doesn't take all that much to meet a girl. Just introduce yourself and strike up a conversation! That would be such a welcome change! So get up your courage and just talk to her. Most girls are dying for a guy to just come up and introduce himself. From there you can figure out if you have any kind of a spark as friends or otherwise. Just remember to be confident.
Whatever happens, happens. It's no big deal either way. If she responds positively then you've got something! If not, then she's just not the girl for you, and there are way more out there just waiting to meet a guy like you.
2006-08-16 00:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by intothelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch her when she is alone, but not secluded... so in a busy area with lots of people around, just no one else talking to her. Then just casually remark about what she is doing, or ask her if you could help her out with what she's carrying. Just keep it casual. Then introduce yourself to keep things from getting awkward. Don't use pick-up lines, and I don't mean corny ones, I mean ANY pick-up lines. Avoid them at all costs, don't even refer to them as a last resort. Girls can see right through them, they scream desperate and helpless. Just keep it casual and short, nothing too drawn out. Don't plan everything out or else you will freeze up if something goes wrong, just go with the flow. Once you initiate conversation it's her move. Either she will except and continue to carry out the conversation, or she will decline and you can both move on. Remember, if she excepts, don't linger, but don't bolt right away. Stick around long enough to have a casual conversation and then in a day or so go up to her and try talking again. After a few times she will get more comfortable with you and then you can slowly gain a friendship if nothing else. Good luck!
~God bless
2006-08-16 00:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) You can flirt with her......but since your a shy guy you should just go up to her and say "Hi." And then if she replies you then you guys can start a conversation,right? When you start a conversation, just be yourself.
2)If she doesn't reply when you say "hi," then that means she's not into you or she just thinks your weird, stupid, or ugly.
3)If she replys back with a disgusted look then that means she is definatly not into you. Then you should just be cool and keep being nice and caring. That might get her attention.
Might take time. Just be Patient.
2006-08-16 00:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Summer Rain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you start a conversation with an ugly girl.
You need to be yourself and look passed her beauty and your physical attraction for her then realize she is just a normal person just like you --- maybe with just a little more beauty on the outside. Talk to her like you would talk to anyone else. Relax---it's not all beauty that counts.
2006-08-16 00:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by mother of 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I feel you man, I'm still shy sometimes myself. Of course you're going to be nervous, but you just have to learn to suck it up and deal with it, no matter how bad it feels. She's a human too, keep that in mind, and if you really are interested in who she is I'm sure it will show through. Simple questions like "So where are you from" have always worked for me, that always gives you more to talk about.
2006-08-16 00:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im not trying to sound stuck-up-but seriously i am a very pretty girl and i have a great body. and you know what we dont get talked to as much as ugly girls. most men feel intimidated and wont even approach us so we are kinda lonely. we want a guy to just come up, be himself and just start a conversation...a conversation that doesnt invole sex.
just be polite and nice and we will usually respond just because you had the nerve to come over and try.
2006-08-16 00:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is beautiful she has guys lining up and trying every line. Try ing to start a conversation? Walk up and say hi. Then just be yourself and talk about anything.
2006-08-16 00:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by jackson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself, tell her youve wanted to talk to her and say hello. If she says shes busy tell her to stop and talk to you when she gets a change. If she talks to you, stick to the basics, ask her name, where she grew up, does she come there often. Keep it light, ask her if you can buy her a (beer, coffee, etc. where ever you are or want to ask her too) Girls like guys who are easy to talk to and not pushy. Be yourself and dont take it personally if she isnt into you. If its goes well tell her you'll see her again if you think you will at that place or offer to give her YOUR phone number and tell her you hope to hear from her.
Good luck
2006-08-16 00:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by ams3651 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have 2 go up 2 her and say hi and then just keep up the conversation
2006-08-16 00:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by sleepin_wit_the_devil666 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to be really shy with guys about 3 years ago i saw this guy and i really liked him but i never talked to so then i found out that he did like me too and was shy to say anything to me so i think you should just talk to her i know its kind of hard but it wont hurt maybe she is interested in you too but i would ask her questions like ask her what she is interested in. its better to try then to not at all trust me i know
2006-08-16 01:03:17 · answer #11 · answered by alex l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋