Please help!!!!!!!! how to get over someone that you are compeltely obsessed with?

Question

please don't tell me time will heal----I need to get over him now!!!!!!

oh and i also tried to make myself mad at him, that didn't work either!

and please please give some decent lengthy advice please!

please please please help me please!!!!!

Answer 1

practice. im doing the same thing. everytime i think of my ex i emediately think of something else. i keep doing that over and over. i do it 100 plus times a day. now i only think of him 10-20 times a day. so im getting better. its a habit that you have to break. plus you have to love yourself more than you love him. so go outside as much as possile. its not going to go away unless you work hard at it. so be brave and say i can do it. i know it hurts sometime. but yo cant force someone to love you cuz if you did you would not feel good about that either cuz he wouldnt be doing it on his own. so fix your self up and do some exercises like robics and burn some of that energy off. clean out a closet or two. go to walmart in the middle of the night. dont listen to any love songs and smile at at guy or two. but keep doing that thing i said. it really works cuz its helped me. i even tried to make myself mad at him. but when i cooled down the feelings came back. you just have to get out of that routine of him being around. its just a bad habit. so fill your mind with anything else when you start thinking about him. i dont care how manty times just do it. watch a good scary movie. but it has to be a good scary movie so it will keep your attention. good luck

Answer 2

Well, the quickest way to get over your obsession would be to find something/someone new to obsess over - seriously! Even though it's not the greatest place to meet guys, go to a club with your friends, let loose, and have fun (and be smart and careful at the same time!). I can remember going through a bad breakup and it was such a relief to go out with my friends soon after, having the chance to meet new people. Also, keep yourself busy with work/school, or whatever it is you do each day. Find a creative outlet through music and art, etc. Get involved in new activities and before you know it, you'll be meeting new people, connecting more with your friends, and maybe meeting that new special someone. And take some time to obsess over yourself - know that you are an amazing, powerful person who can get past this and find something better in life!

Answer 3

Im really sorry about that!
I know how hard it is to get over someone you love, especially if theres nothing you can do about it.
Heres what I think you should do.
Invite all you friends over for a movie nights...no matter what age you are, you can always enjoy a good movie! I recommend NOT renting or watching any dramas or sappy romantic movies, those will just make you worse. Rent a funny comedy, might i recommend hot chicks? its hilarious!
By the time you know it, you'll be having so much fun that you wont even be thinking about him!
Hope this helps; email me anytime if you have more questions!

Answer 4

I had been through same time. I used to cry a lot and feel sad. If you feel good by crying do it. But if you are just obessed then come on, hang out with friends, go for movies, learn cooking, join a dance class..he is just a guy..think for what u were wasting ur time....dont wate further and think about ur future..Spend time for that and make it better future..so that when he will see u again in his life, he will regrete for ever..:) keep smiling and be brave. You can do it like evrybody does..

Answer 5

Try to do anything that keeps you from sitting around and brooding about him. Stay as busy as possible!! Hang out with friends more,but don't spend that time talking about him!! Whatever you enjoy doing,do more of it.Maybe meeting some new people would help divert your attention from obsessing over him.Good luck and be patient.

Answer 6

It's hard. I'm still (years later) marginally obsessed with someone from back in my past.
Keep busy. Get into something that in no way reminds you of them. You get to meet new people and focus your brain on something else.
Toss any mementos: I used to save the stupidest stuff that reminded me of them (I had a rock from their lawn that I saved forever). Putting that crap in a trash can gives you the power. Like: 'I'm choosing to throw you out of my life.'
The best thing to do is spend time with friends and try not to talk about your obsession.
...Or find something else to obsess about.

Answer 7

Stay busy. Avoid him. If you absolutely can't avoid him, you're gonna have to do some acting. And try to control the shaky hands, too. That's a dead giveaway.

Answer 8

Open your heart to let others in. you cant feel anything for anyone if you keep your heart in the past..if it helps, think of all the bad things hes ever done to you, and think nothing but those..second, think of the women he is with while your sitting there dwelling on him.

Answer 9

make yourself busy. go on vacation, study hard and become a cumlaude, earn a degree, find a hobby, go to a salon and have a makeover, learn to skydive. or bungee jump. you will forget him definitely

Answer 10

time,time time. you will go through being mad jelous and hurt the only thing that will help is time i know that sucks but its the truth....hey you can always make his life absolute hell to pass time lol!