not getting as big and toned as him
2006-08-15 17:36:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
am i wrong not to visit him
2006-08-15 17:37:32 · update #1
Yes you are wrong.You must love each other and visit each other as a manifestation that you have a good relation with your brother.If your broither is more toned and bigger than you ,you can discuss with him the way to correct it in a polite way.Your idea for a good proportion,can be suggested to him You must help him by advising him and not hurting him.You must not feel bad for that.Togetherness in a family is very important.You can ask for help to your psarents if you are not brave enough to discuss it directly with your brother.
2006-08-23 17:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't let that stop you from visiting your brother. Since you said he makes you feel bad, I assume me must make some remarks that produce these feelings. Stand your ground. Make it clear that you are content with your image and then live up to that. If you are not then you must work on producing the image you want for yourself, do not strive to be like your brother for the sake of doing so, you have to live with yourself and your body, so it is important that it please you and no one else. Remember the body's outer appearance is not a reflection of the person's inner beauty and strength. Some think it is great to have physical attractiveness, but it can also be a curse when that is all people see and not the real person inside.
2006-08-16 01:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by celtic-tides04@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let your brother make you feel bad for you not being as buff as him. there are so many things in life alot more important that how has the better body. Blood is thicker thatn water and you guys should resolve your pety problems. I just lost a brother, I regret not spending more time with him in the last 2 years we lived far from each other, what i would give to have him around. dont make that mistake too.
2006-08-22 18:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are you!! YOU are perfect in God's eyes! Don't be distressed over small fries. Look at the bigger picture!! Everyone is different........Don't let something that petite keep you from loving and enjoying your brother (family). Life is too short to waste it. Give him a big hug and tell him you love him!! It will make both you feel good!
2006-08-23 23:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sillyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats pretty wrong of you bro. Even if your brother drills you about not being as buff as he is, you need to understand that you are your own individual self. And that if you are happy with your body the way it is then it doesn't matter what he thinks of you. You have to stop trying to live up to others expectations and instead live up to your own expectations, especially if those expectations are starting to effect your relationship with your brother and/or family. Go see your brother man!
2006-08-23 19:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by turbocharged187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love your brother for who he is inside and spend time with him as much as you can and forget about shallow pettiness about who looks better. What if you don't see him and this ends up being your last chance ever? Won't you feel bad that all you thought about was your jealousy? Spend quality time with your brother. Talk to him about what his goals are in life, his beliefs. What does he value? Family is very valuable.
2006-08-16 01:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If that is the only reason you aren't visiting your brother tha isn't right. We are all built in our own way and though you aren't as big as your brother you should be happy with who you are.
2006-08-23 23:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says or does things to make you feel bad, then you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel. If you just feel that way on your own, then I think you have a lttle problem with self esteem. If you really felt good about yourself then it wouldn't matter how much bigger he was than you.
2006-08-23 19:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Fee Fee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you both have your own assets. He is bigger and more toned as you say and you are..........? Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder and is only skin deep. A beautiful mind has more merit than a beautiful body
2006-08-16 00:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by denimblue_6a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got top deal with you insecurities and face your brother, maybe he can help you out. Ask him for tips and a work out plan so that to two of you can become closer.
2006-08-23 23:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by lisa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋