I have frequent sexual fantasies about my Pastor. He has a wife and kids and he says that homosexuality is wrong, but I can't deny how I feel about him. When he was on a trip recently, he trusted me to water his plants and feed his cat. When I was at his house, I tried on some of his clothes and took a pair of his dirty underwear out of the hamper. I like to bury my face in his underwear and inhale his scent as I pleasure myself. Should I tell him what I have done? I am afraid that he will not forgive me and that he will throw me out of the church, and I especially don't want to have to give the underwear back. I'm so confused. What should I do?
2006-08-15 17:32:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think that you should only tell him when you go in the gloryhole box, er...I mean the confessional. See how he reacts. It may be heaven, or it may be hell.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 17:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Che 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What you are feeling is normal and very real. These intense feelings will continue to be normal if you do not act on them. Do not tell him. He's married. That is sacred. Have enough respect for him. Remember that he cannot change the way he is anymore than you can. You will come off as the "creepy gay guy" if you divulge your feelings. Hang onto the underwear. Never return them. Keep him at a safe distance and act "normal". It is normal to shift from one unobtainable person to the next when we are afraid of being vulnerable. Remember that when you allow yourself to become vulnerable, you will find the right man to adore you and pleasure you. Ride this out. Live well. Laugh often. And Love much. As for God, do you really think he would make you a homosexual to twist in the wind and feel guilty. Heaven's no!!!!!!!! Love God and yourself. Don't beg for forgiveness. Give thanks!
2006-08-16 00:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by ambere_m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask God to forgive you first and then the preacher. I would suggest the underwear be burned and thrown away. Your whole statement is filled with Satan's will instead of God's will. Get on your knees and don't get up until you know that you are free from this sin with him or anyone. If he is a good man of God he will advise you where to get help but it should not come from him. It wouldn't work.You should probably go to a different church now b/c it would help you get over this easier. I will pray for you now.
2006-08-16 00:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to fall on your knees and pray for GOD to forgive you, if your story is true or not.
Get outta that church, get exorcised from the demons in you..... Then ask your Mom to forgive you for having these fantasies about her pastor. He is right, homosexuality is against God. Says so right in the Bible, so he is not saying it, God is........
2006-08-16 00:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really do not think that you are posting this to get a real answer. If so shame on you ! That is truley discusting..
2006-08-16 00:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Windwispers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday when he's got his back to you, pull his pants down and start doing him. If he doesn't push you away, then you know he wants it, but if he pushes you away, then you need to tell him sorry.
2006-08-19 22:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Far away alone. He has a life. Get one of your own.
2006-08-16 00:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Babs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course go and show the sausage over the rythm of chacha.
2006-08-16 00:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Lord, not another one. I'm laughing.
2006-08-16 00:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by falcon_nighthawk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your pastor needs to know NOW
2006-08-16 00:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋