do you consider this cheating..........??

Question

umm...where should i start here??ok...im 13 and my "bf" is 19....i am through with him...he is pissing me off badly!!so when i talk to other guys....i tell them i dont have a bf....so..he is not the only bf i have right now...i dont know what to do...please if you are going to tell me i neeed to focus on my studies and school and stuff i rather you not answer i got enough of that crap...anyways...i dont know what should i do....should i break it off with the 19 yr old or what?thanks for all the help...and if you are going to call me a skank or $lut or w.e it is...please leave im asking you nicely already...soo thx for all your help

no...my parents does not know only a few close friends of mine know...and i dont thnk he is playing....its more like i playing him

also....the other guys are all older then me...and...my lil sis told him that i was cheating on him...he got mad...so is that a sign saying he trully loves me or somthing?

Answer 1

Do yourselves a favor - break up. If you can't date one man, don't bother calling them boyfriends. You may wish to consider your approach to dating, like make sure they understand from the beginning that you do not want to date them exclusively.

By the way, you're asking for trouble. If your parents find out you're dating a 19 year old they're going to call the police and accuse him of statutory rape. Try to be more careful and transparent with your parents. If you're dating and it's nonsexual, let your parents no about it so they don't jump to conclusions.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I wouldn't call you a skank because you are only 13 but you obviously know you are too young to be going through all this. If you really want a bf then find one your age. That way you'll both be somewhat innocent and you won't go through all the drama that you're going through right now. Just be careful.

Answer 3

OK im not gonna preach to you cuz thats not why you asked the question and you need advise......
First yes that is cheating..you haven't told your bf that you don't want tobe with him anymore so you are still in a relationship w/ him...if you have more than 1 relationship then you are cheating.....Now if you want to be a "player" you alreasy messing up in the game mama...First get to know your powers as a female then you must know boys(men) thoughts cuz they aint like us at all!!!! Holla at me when you get to be 16...maybe i'll help you more then

Answer 4

You should get pregnant as soon as possible so that you can prove to the world what a grownup you are.

On a serious note, you should LISTEN to the people who are telling to to focus on school. Believe it or not, you don't actually know all there is to know about life at age 13.

Answer 5

you should not be with a 19 year old. At that age he's considered a pedophile because you're underage. Why would you want to be with someone like that? Think about it

Answer 6

im 13 n my ex was 16 well at the end he was cheatin on me since hes 19 girl u cant always be watchin him u should brake up i think if not play him cuz hes probly playin u n does your mom kno u guys datein??

Answer 7

I think you should break up with the 19 year old..

Answer 8

13 and going with a 19 year old.You need to forget about boys and pull out your dolls

Answer 9

yes dump the guy not only cause he is too old for you but do you really think an adult would take a child seriously...dont wait your time find someone you can have fun with. not someone who can go to jail for hanging out with u

Answer 10

break it off because your to young to date a 19 year old anyway, try to stay in youre own age group.