My boyfriend desperately wants to have anal sex with me. But I keep telling him no. I've tried it before with an ex and didn't like it. He keeps argueing that I haven't tried ti with HIM. Well, I know that it's not gonna feel any better wether it's with him or someone else. I just don't like the feeling. Am I being selfish? Should I go on and try it once with him? Or should I keep telling him no?
2006-08-15 16:48:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
personally....you just have to go with what you feel comfortable with...it is for some people and others freak over it..I had a lady friend who used to like it and then after some medical probing there, she couldn't stand doing it ever again...No, your not being selfish..Maybe if he is "smaller" than ur ex, then it will not be so bad...use a small object first and by yourself...this will help you decide....Hey..Iam just a guy giving advice...
later,
Tanman
2006-08-15 16:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by TM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you should not do any thing u dont want to do and if he loves u he will understand this. Explain to him that ur x was an "experiement" that u did not enjoy. I too have only tried it once and did not enjoy it but found that if u do do it use PLENTY of lubrication, it makes it much easier but as i said before i would not advise u to do ANY THING that u dont want to do.
2006-08-15 23:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body and you alone have the right to decide what is going to happen with it. Don't let anyone force you into doing something that makes you uncomfortable. Keep telling him no.
2006-08-15 23:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new bf. Yuck. Anal sex is smelly and nasty. Ask a doctor about it. Tell your bf to go rub his privates on dog pooh.
2006-08-15 23:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by leroythetoyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not being selfish and I think you should stick to your ground.
2006-08-15 23:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by bugsbunnylookalike2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not selfish. It's your body.
2006-08-15 23:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy cared about you, one no would be plenty.
2006-08-15 23:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by badbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're uncomfortable with it then he should respect your wishes!
2006-08-15 23:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking a bunch a strangers something this stupid for. I say "hell yeah, let him stick it in ya"!!
2006-08-15 23:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by wildraft1 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Shut up and bend over!
2006-08-15 23:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋