I always hear use confidence and all that stuff and be yourself... but what are some ways that i can attract and get girls? Like im a nice guy already and stuff.... how do i attract and get girls to like me, and also to not come across as "just friends"
2006-08-15 15:32:34 · 12 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you're already a nice guy, you have a great start. Make sure you keep yourself...clean (lol, I'm totally serious) and don't act cocky or macho.
Put your emotions out there. Girls like to see that you're sweet and willing to talk.
Make a girl feel special. Don't tell her she looks good (unless you're actually going out). You'll come off as a pervert or a gay (not that there's anything wrong with being gay. Just that....you're not). Tell her you like the way she laughs or that she's really good at something.
Try to be close to her in subtle ways. Again, don't be a perv. Hug her when you know you're not gonna see her for a while, poke her shoulder, sit next to her whenever you get the chance.
Let her know that you're interested in being her friend as well as being something more. She won't like you if she thinks you're just in it for...well, whatever.
All in all, girls really like guys that can just be themselves without being...annoying about it. Like, don't be insecure, but don't be cocky. Just be you and accept that. If you have nerdy habits, laugh about it. Girls like that. Really.
2006-08-15 15:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-27 03:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with her in the beginning. Get comfortable just talking to her and being yourself. Make her laugh and let her know that she's very important to. Share secrets and memories about each other. Then ask her out or maybe to a school dance.
2006-08-15 15:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have to tell you, the "be yourself" stuff it totally true. girls dig the down-to-earth guys. you can't MAKE someone like you. it just happens! if youre a nice guy then the girls should start to notice you. just let your good side get the best of you. show off your sense of humor, and just be an interesting person to be around
2006-08-15 15:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what you should do. Who knows, you may have some characteristics that attract girls. The most important thing you need to know, DON'T BE SOMETHING YOU'RE NOT!!!
We hate pretenders, so don't be one, and you should have a girlfriend soon. Good luck.
2006-08-15 15:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore women and try to get on with your life. You can't trust the advice that ANY woman can give you, and you have to ask for advice from your guys friends, that means that you don't want what THEY want in a relationship.
2006-08-15 15:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, if you don't want them to get the impression of "just friends" then don't give it to them. make sure you flirt so they know you're interested, but not in a perverted kind of way. but, being yourself IS really important because you don't want to be fake, cuz it WILL all backfire on you later.
2006-08-15 15:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by E-V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some dating tips and articles on this site on how to get girls
2006-08-15 15:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can flirt just like girls to let them now there into them. Flirt with her and make her laugh and smile at her.
2006-08-15 15:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off a piece of garden hose and stuff in your underwear, works everytime.
2006-08-15 15:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by gobluemichael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋