I've always been a girl that doesn't chase guys because i'm afraid to get hurt. I was always expecting them to run after me. Now, i'm intrested to this guy... we 've been knowing eachother for... maybe a month now. And i took the decision to do whatever it takes to get him. like he doesn't call me that often.. witch it hurts... but i guess girls could make some moves too right? i need a good advice... of what should i do to make him want me !
2006-08-15 15:28:04 · 6 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself if he doesn't realize how great you are soon he is not worth it.
2006-08-15 15:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you can't make a guy want you, for the right reason anyways. If you are interested you first need to make sure he knows. Maybe take the first step and ask if he would like to come over for a movie or go out and do something. If he doesn't take you up on that offer that just means he isn't interested. Now you say he doesn't call you that often. Why do you think he doesn't call you that often? I mean should there be a reason why he should call you more? How old are you and him anyways? I say just show interest but if you don't get anything in return go find someone else....
2006-08-15 22:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why women are so confused about this.
Guy actually ENJOY it when women make the moves. It's incredibly flattering (given the common conception that women just plain don't want sex), and it takes a complete load off their shoulders. Ask for his number, grab him on your MySpace, talk to him all the time, show a lot of interest for the guy inside, and spend time with him.
2006-08-15 22:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your trying to hard. be his friend first grow on him. if you laugh more and act flirty than he will notice. in fact why dont you ask him if u and him could hang out for a while at your house to do homework or whatever. than wear something nice that will get him to notice you more, keep eye contact w/him when you talk to him and say his name when u speak to him to let him know that the conversation is for him to be in. but really its normal to be afraid to get hurt, but youll never know what to expect from a guy untill u learn the types of guys. besides you will never know what good u'd get out of it if you dont give guys a chance to proove themselves.
2006-08-15 22:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Scarlet5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever it takes, as long as you stay yourself the whole way through. if this guy is gonna start liking you, it shouldnt be for someone youre not. if he doesnt like you for who you are, move on, as hard as it may be.
2006-08-15 22:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the initiative.
2006-08-15 22:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jannabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋