Everyone usually refers to my best friend as my "soulmate" and is placing high bets on the fact that we're gonna end up together. What do you think? Is it possible to be soulmates without being romantically involved? Or is it a good idea? Thoughts on any of this?
2006-08-15 15:25:36 · 19 answers · asked by Enchanted Siren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a complicated question. There are so many people who believe there is only one soulmate out there for them, when that's not necessarily true. You can have more than one soulmate out there who play different roles in your life. My boyfriend and I met when we were just getting out of bad pasts, and when we least expected it, we just connected, fell in love, and our future is limitless. But - I had someone enter my life when I least expected while I was just starting to date my boyfriend. I had the strongest connection (and still do) with this other guy, and we both discussed it out...and figured out that our connection is more of a brother and sister relationship. The both of them are my soulmates in my life, have been there for me without fail, and I have grown and learned so much from them. So, yes, they can end up in relationships, but there are others that are in your life for other purposes.
2006-08-15 15:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its a damn good idea too have a soul mate hy davey here along with boyfrien steeviee. 2 gay dudes yeah we have a lot of soul mates as friends and have no interest, in, becoming anything other than just that, no romanticc involement i assume you are talking about, males here and females as well here etc, okay, sometimes you must draw a fine line and kep these people as, soulmates, sometimes friendship,, is the best, way or, routes, too go on this, soulmates are just the only way to have, a damn good friend, dont mes up a good thing take it, and leave it that, a soulmate, respect a person draw a fine line here rtc/
2006-08-15 15:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think soulmates are meant for each other and should end up together like you and your friend. I think it would be a good idea because you already know everything about them and you have to trust them if they are your best friend so what more could you want
2006-08-15 15:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throughout life you will meet one person who is like no other. You could talk to this person for hours and never get bored, you could tell this person things and they will never judge you. This person is your soulmate... your best friend... never let them go...
A guy and a girl can be friends. But sooner or later one will fall for the other. Maybe too early, maybe too late, but maybe, just maybe forever
If you`re soulmates, then whatever happens, you will end up together.
2006-08-15 15:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to be soulmates without being romantically invovled provided that you both have a mutual connection like if your best friend talks to you for 20 minutes and then he is bored, thats definitely not a connection. If your friend always confide in his feelings and things he did, does or will do, and you too are doin the same, then there is a connection. You know wat i mean.To be romantically involved cannot be avoided in watever situations. Sooner or later, the relationship will reach to it if you both decide to be together. To me, i think it is a good idea because your friend is your best friend. Who would be more happier to be in love with their best friend and to know that their best friend is their soulmate???
2006-08-15 15:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not important that others perceive your best friend as your 'soulmate', what is important is how you perceive it. Often, what others see is not what we see. A real soulmate of yours will know you without knowing you and it does not mean that you get along as great as your best friend and you, and it does not necessarily mean that you are going to end up together, because even 'soulmates' will have to work out differences and difficulties presented by life and by society....
2006-08-15 15:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure. I believe that there is a soul mate out there for each and every soul. But will they actually meet and be together in this lifetime?
I put alot of thought into it. Sometimes, it could take an entire lifetime to actually come together with your soul mate.....
I think it would be the most intense thing in the world if you are connected by your souls, to have your bodies be together too. It would be more powerful than you can imagine....
But, hey, thats just what I think.. I'm not a professional...Its all my perception of things........
Great question....
2006-08-15 15:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Golden Hair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say i married my "soul mate". My husband and i grew up together but he is 8 years older so nothing ever happened when we were younger. He had a crush on me for months before he asked my out. On our first date both of us just knew we were meant to be together. He became my best friend. Their isn't a day that goes by where we don't fall in love with each other all over again. A soul mate is someone who is perfect for you and you can't imaging living a day without them. Even if you don't know them now when you meet your soul mate or someone you want to spend the rest of your life living for they will become your best friend. That may or may not be your best friend now. Give it time.
2006-08-15 15:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by natasha s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen. The chances are high since you two are best friends so you two must have talked about many things that you two wouldn't even tell to normal friends. I don't see why you two can't be romantically involved. In my opinion, I think it is a good idea. So, go for it!
2006-08-15 15:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think soulmates DO end up together.. but thats just my opinion. I tend to be somewhat of a romantic.
2006-08-15 15:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by katyk08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋