i am like a combo of emo and punk and people keep calling me goth its getting annoying and driving me insane!
2006-08-15 15:06:45 · 32 answers · asked by my_emo_romance 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
okay and im also christian too and i have only cut my self like once and so yea
2006-08-15 15:13:49 · update #1
okay i have a life tooo! i am in soccer volleyball softball 4 h and still find time for my life at home time for the gym every day! i do have a life and i also have toime for confermation classes a church im just under A LOT OF STRESS!
2006-08-15 15:26:03 · update #2
i think i might desighn a tea shirt like that! i will wear it the first day of school!
2006-08-15 15:29:05 · update #3
wear the T-shirt, "* I am NOT a goth!"*
2006-08-15 15:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lor-the-Giraffe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you - you are individual! The reason they are calling you goth is that you most likely wear too much black - which is can be emo or punk - but emo and punk people use more colors (red/blue/dark brown/dark colors)
Emo - you wear shirts with tons of hearts, etc or bleeding hearts or tears
Punk - you don't care about anything but being crazy and anarchy! You don't take crap from anyone and do your own thing
Goth - hardcore, dress in black, usually wears some type of spike strips, is usually into BDSM and crazy stuff that causes pain to themself.
You figure out what you are and be confident! Don't worry what they say.
2006-08-15 15:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by silver5802 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because if you're emo AND punk, it IS like the ultimate combo of goth. Quit cutting yourself and get a life.
2006-08-15 15:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you react to these peoples critisism you give them the power to continue to torment you. Pretend you dont even hear them...Egnore them and they will give it up because there will be no reaction, they will soon get borred and move onto another victim unfortunately...
As long as you are happy by how you look, who cares what people say about you...Learn to take critisism gracefully and you will find that you will become a better stronger person for it...
Your self respect and confidence should be all that matters....
2006-08-15 15:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hun, I know the feeling. I am very emo.. I used to be into the whole cutting thing but now I'm just always sad & crying.. but I dress punk.. people don't understand others like we understand ourselves and how we are & how we think. If people are judging you then that's their mistake. Just learn to deal with it. It will all pass eventually. Wanna talk more then add me on Yahoo -- xx_brokenwithoutyou_xx@yahoo.com
2006-08-15 15:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Chels 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i'm not sure what emo is or what you want to have answered. If you don't want to be called goth, don't wear as much dark colors or make up. Find your own identity, then focus your clothes, hair, makeup, whatever. Hope I could help. God bless.
2006-08-15 15:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Help 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you!! Tell these people to get a life, and find something else to do with their time, then find stupid little things to pick on people about. Goth or not goth, you like what you like and you are who you are, DON'T ever change that for anybody. If your a good person inside and out, and you are happy with your life, who cares what other people think. If they don't like what you do then tell them to blow it out their A.S.S hole's... Keep your head up girl... Good luck!
2006-08-15 15:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say nothing is wrong with you, But you must remember if your insist on being different, people are going to judge you.
Not saying it's right, But that is human nature.
Just like if a guy chooses to go around wearing a diaper, he's going to be looked at funny.
But it's his right to wear that diaper;)
2006-08-15 15:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmm...kill them. lol. that'd be awesome. nah, just ignore them, because if u get mad and show it by tellin them something, they'll know that they're getting to you, and they won't stop. just ignore them, block them out. it doesn't matter what other people think of you, it only matters what you think or know about yourself. the only person you need to prove something to is yourself, not anyone else. just be yourself, and you'll be happy. dont try and be someone else or change your ways just because someone doesnt like it or because people call you something. ignore it, dont sink to their level by sayin somethin back. you're better than them by not doing anything. be strong, mentally, and emotionally.
2006-08-15 15:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be you and don't care what anyone thinks - how they interpret your looks. And if you're really worried, look at the details. ie: is it your hair? then change it. But enjoy being you.
2006-08-15 15:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by oldbuckhorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest that's going to happen but you know what let them stupid people keep laughing there's going to be one day where they need your help and they cant get it just be like i thought you said i was a goth??
2006-08-15 15:12:34 · answer #11 · answered by chinora m 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋