does it hurt the first time you have sex for a girl does it feel nice or is there too much pain
2006-08-15 15:06:33 · 28 answers · asked by hannah_hunnii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest with you, yes it hurts and you will bleed a little. You can definitely tell that you've been more or less torn into. If you have a considerate partner, he will slow down and allow you time to adjust to things. Then it will feel better. Afterwards, don't be surprised if you're sore and it hurts to go to the bathroom. That will go away in a day or two. By the way, use protection if you're not in a monogamous relationship and don't do it if you're not 100% sure this is the guy you really want to be with. Once you give up your virginity, you can't ever get it back. Make sure your first time really is special.
2006-08-15 15:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by lexiann721 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does hurt a bit the first time. It also depends on how big the guy is. You may even think after the first time "what's all the hype about?" I thought that afterwards because it wasn't what I expected. After a few times it won't hurt as much and will start to feel good.
2006-08-15 15:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by jbb316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time should be romantic, When you are really into the guy and want to be with him, sex is a little painful the first time, but you usually have enough lube built up to help with the pain. You soon forget the pain if the guy you are with is respectful to your actions and is gentle. You will deffinantly love it . Just be sure you are ready and it is your decisions. No means NO!!!!!
2006-08-15 15:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the condition of the hymen, the membrane that stretches across the vaginal canal. If it is still intact when you have relations for the first time, it can be painful (and slightly bloody) the first time. However, many girls have already stretched their hymen through athletic activity, or have weak or thin hymens, and there is little or no pain the first time.
2006-08-15 15:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it depends on the girl. some girls say there's no pain, some say a little, some say it's the most painful thing ever. i guess you won't know until you do it. but i personally feel if you're ready for it and are relaxed and you both take you're time it'll be alright. don't rush into it, if you're not ready don't do it...and if he doesn't like the fact that you've changed your mind tell him to go **** himself...literally.
2006-08-15 15:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if your young and tight yes it hurts - then there after no. Why not wait your first time for a special guy so you will always have found memories.
2006-08-15 15:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Carol B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would have a little discomfort and pain if it is the first time for the lady. The breaking of the hymen would also give some blood of a spoonful or so.
2006-08-15 15:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The size of his penis will determine just how much it will hurt. Make sure he's patient and goes slowly, try to relax.....also make sure he knows you're a virgin. Yes it hurts, but nothing you can't handle.... you won't be in agony, and you'll get used to it quickly and it will no longer be painful.
2006-08-15 15:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts. It hurt like hell when i did it and i didnt even get an orgasm. But it feels great after that. The greatest thing you've never experienced.
2006-08-15 15:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by crazyd17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it didnt hurt me but of corse i was way too young so he was small aand i geuss now ide rather have it hurt than through it all away when your young and i mean real young but i geuss everything happens for a reason but you know it really hurt when a guy fingured me though weird huh ok hope thats not too much info bye
2006-08-15 15:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋