I dont trust her. She's shady, she lies, dresses slutty, hang out with a s-load of guys. Why cant I just let her go? It's just stupid. I get pissed off so often, but when I'm with her I have never been more happy. Is that happiness worth putting up with all the B/S? I'm a pretty emotionless person with the exception of her. She's the first person I actually cared about(besides family obviously). I dont know what to do.
2006-08-15 15:02:38 · 27 answers · asked by smokewizzle44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After reading your answers:
Is it possible to keep this person as a friend? Its very hard cause she is friends with a lot of my friends so I often hear her name and see her places.
2006-08-15 15:15:21 · update #1
No offence, but she sounds horrible. Don't stick around her anymore, it sounds like you can do better than that. Don't let this happen to yourself, get away now.
2006-08-15 15:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you fell in love with the wrong person. That happens to a lot of people. Why can't you trust her? Has she ever cheated on you? And how do you know that she lies to you? If you are absolutely positive that she is, then just get over her. You do not need that kind of treatment. However, if you have no proof and you are having such a wonderful time when you guys are together, you should stay with her. And maybe she dresses slutty so you would find her to be the sexiest woman alive. Talk to her, not the people on this website. Good luck!
2006-08-15 22:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stop at just letting go, Hell get into that bitches head and start ******* with HER for a little bit becaues if she's got you in that situation she is sure as hell doing it to you. She might as mistaken you for someone who is willing to do anything, a MARK if you will, and does not really care about you. Put away your wallet and start banging that out like its going out of style caues it is. Belive You me your not the only one to be intranced by the pink eye and wont be the last, dont ever put up with a cheater or someone who has those tendencys.
2006-08-15 22:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by And i heard as it were a thunder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her yet and told her how you feel? First of all, let me just say that the foundation of a relationship is trust, and apparently you dont trust her. Why do you want to be with someone you dont trust? It looks to me you're just wasting her time as she is yours. Prioritize your feelings and ask yourself...is this something you want to be dealing with? But if you really do care for her, sometimes love is unconditional. Though you dont want to settle either...never settle because the person you are meant to be with could be right around the corner. Personally, I would break it off now, before my feelings grew stronger and it became harder. Ask yourself this...Is she worth your time?
2006-08-15 22:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by tweenky1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her go, in the long run your goin to get hurt less. If she lies and everythin, that's not ever goin to turn out in a good relationship, if you don't trust your gf it's not even worth goin out with her. It might be hard to let her go, but you'll be happy that you did later!!! there's other girls that are better!!
2006-08-15 22:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by luvin_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! She is not worth the time you have put into the relationship, she doesn't care. There is however a wonderful girl waiting for you just around the corner. LOOK!!!
2006-08-15 22:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweethometexas2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happier away from her or when your around her. She might just be a player. Try to find a girl you age that is nice and dosent act like a slut. You could do so much better then a girl like that. Anyone can do much better then a girl like that. Try to find someone else and you'll forget about her.
2006-08-15 22:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may seem like the hardest thing to do but it's time for you to let her go because obviously she truly doesn't make you happy. You'll eventually find someone else that will make you forget about her and make you realize that what you thought you felt for her really wasn't as strong as you thought it was.
2006-08-15 22:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do much better. i was once in your situation and had to realize that me and my happiness was worth much more than someone who obviously dosen take your feelings into consideration. if she was like that when you met her then she's not gonna change. so cut your losses and move on. i know it may not seem like it now but you will find someone that makes you feel 100 times better than she does. its ok to raise your expectations for your oun pride and self worth. believe me, i learned the hard way
2006-08-15 22:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by skyluv360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this is you, but most guys in your situation has low self-esteem, thinks they can't get a better woman, there is more out there, you just have to be willing to let go of what your with.
2006-08-15 22:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋