i have been dating a married man fr 2 years. He is with me more then the wife he says he wants unconditinal love. Im confused on that. He helps me in so many ways. And we have such a go fe when we are togethre. He is at the point that if the wife finds ut h so help me here he doesnt care anymore. So whats up with this love thing?
2006-08-15 15:00:40 · 11 answers · asked by jimcat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't quite understand your question, especially with the sentence before the last being mumbled up. But, I will try to answer your question.
Unconditional love is where one places someone else's interest before his/hers.
I think your married man is very selfish expecting unconditional love just from you.
2006-08-15 15:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no future in loving a married man, have you not heard that before? How would you feel if this was your husband and he was doing what he is doing with you to another woman, would you like it? I don't think so!!
Unconditional love is when no matter what happens he still loves you. In other words if he wants to go screw someone else that is his choice and if you want to do that so be it.
I think I would tell this little man that if he really wanted me that he just needs to get a divorce with her first. But you know what, he is not going to do that, and you know how I know that? Cause if he was going to do it, he would have done it before now!! After all you did say that you have been seeing him for 2 years already did you not? Well he would have done had a divorce started before now if he was. Like I said, there is no future in loving a married man.
He is cheating on her with you so what makes you think he is not cheating on you?
2006-08-15 15:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Tina M he is never going to leave his wife for you I dont care what he is telling you..Ive had to many friends who dated married men and they all ended up going back with there wives..He just wants his cake and eat it to like the old saying goes.Tell him to get lost and see if he really will leave his wife before he looses you..Ill bet you he wont.
2006-08-15 15:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by lynda p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 4-7
By the way, if he is cheating on his wife, what makes you think he will stay faithful to you? (Not saying it to be mean, just asking you to think about it...)
2006-08-15 15:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by the_dog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had better wake up and smell the coffee. That man is not going to leave his wife for you.
As soon as this stops being fun for him, he's going home. And you will be left looking stupid.
2006-08-15 15:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's happenning here is he loves HIMSELF unconditionally.
He wants to do what he wants, when he wants, and with whom he wants and then wants YOU to not question it - therefore, 'love him unconditionally'
This has got sh1t written all over it - get away from him. You know you deserve and can find better. Don't waste another minute of your life.
2006-08-15 15:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kylie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a fool that exploits people and does not understand what love means.
You are a fool because you are still with him.
Every abuser finds a victim – every victim finds an abuser.
2006-08-15 15:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unconditional love? doesn't exist.
love is always binded by certain conditions and certain reciprocals are needed. Think about it.
I not talking about God's love, mother's love for the kids, etc.
2006-08-15 15:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drop him. you are doing a diservice to yourself. unconditional love is love that has no bounds or barriers. if you are ugly your mother shows "unconditional love" to you. she loves you because who you are and not what you look like for example. find someone who finds you good enough to want to be with just you. good luck
2006-08-15 15:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-08-18 16:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋