Well stupidly I figured we were going TO steady so one thing lead to another and he found out I wanted us to break up so he beat me to the punch.There was just problem I HATED NOT BEING WITH HIM!!!!!! So I talked to his friend who said truthfully "Me and his other friends broke you up!" Well me and my bf worked things out and got back together BUT we haven't told his friends but they're getting suspicious do you think it will work??????????????
2006-08-15 14:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok what I'm saying basicly is his friends don't want me going out with him so they broke us up, well we got back together and his friends don't know so they won't ruin it again do ya think it will work? (oh when i say going steady well before him i had a really well, passionate boyfriend, and this boy friend is right where we should be(like 7th grade bf + gf) but I was used to something else now I prefer this) Any more questions? Just ask I'll add details!
2006-08-15 15:11:00 · update #1
I'm not asking if we will work because of us I wan't to know if you think we'll work BECAUSE of his friends!!!!!!
2006-08-15 15:12:44 · update #2
PLEASE I NEED ADVICE
2006-08-15 15:32:38 · update #3
Just had to add this were kids
(7th grade duh) and his mom is awesome so are his grandparesnts, aunt, uncle, cousin, siblings they are all awesome (yes I have met them all and his mom sent them all a picture of us)
2006-08-15 16:01:00 · update #4
(I think his friends don want us going out cuz I've dated some of them and when me and my bf broke up they acted like they wanted me back)
2006-08-15 16:03:31 · update #5
Is he trying to save face in front of his friend or something? I don't get it. It's obvious he needs to find a different class of friends. He should take a page out of the Colbert Report and put them On Notice!
Good luck.
2006-08-23 14:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
altho I'm not sure what it is you're saying, I'd say it won't work bc of the friends. either let him go or be more passionate than b4. if things get boring with him, then you should take some initiative and be like the Celtic women. Tell him to get on his knees and love you for you. and although it usually worked in the Celtic days, I wouldn't be surprised if it worked with you if he really wants this to work out
2006-08-15 22:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Will/Glory/Romance/? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can his friends broke u guys up? and u said it urself ur the one who wanted to break up.. n thats y ur bf would agree to broke up just a little push by his friend.. if u really like him then dont do that again.. and that way im sure even if his friends finds out it wont be a problem.. good luck
2006-08-23 18:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close to his friends he is. If they are a major part of his life, and he lets them influence him too much, then no, it probably won't work. But if he is independant and his friends respect him, then it will. The fact that his friends think they can dictate who your guy is with shows them to be very immature. Be careful of the same tendancies in your guy. Good Luck!
2006-08-15 22:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am adult and still have these problems of people trying to decide what is best when it comes to my relationship. First you two need to decide if you really want to be together and if you do, any time one of his friends come at him with something, you guys need to talk about it instead of jumping to conclusions without knowing whats really goin on.This seemed to work with me and my boyfriend. We are now married. I hope you guys work out. ***I hope that wasn't confusing.***
2006-08-15 22:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a lot of guys let their friends influence them on who they date. his friends will probably find out that you guys are going out again and try to break you up. eventually, all the talk may get to your bf's head and he may agree with his friends. to make sure this doesnt happen, you should first talk to your bf and tell him that you still want to be with him despite his friends opinions of you. then talk to his friends and find out what their problem is with you and tell them that you really want to be with your bf and that you really care about him. i hope this helps! good luck!
2006-08-15 22:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his friends mean alot to him and so does his girl but make sure u and ur bf dicuse things trust me his friends will find out as soon as they try and hook him up again.
2006-08-15 22:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the f*ck should you care about what his friends think? His FAMILY is something to worry about, but his friends don't matter.
2006-08-15 22:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heavens you should write a book!
2006-08-21 04:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
2006-08-15 22:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋