19 and never had a b/f?

Question

it's not so much that I'm in a rush to get into a relationship, but I don't even meet guys.....I don't know how either....advice needed please

Answer 1

The first step is to go somewhere where you can meet guys -- but not just any guys. Have a very clear idea of what kind of man you want to date, then start going to places where that kind of man is likely to be. Want a boozing party animal? Bars and frat parties will do. Want a scholar? Try a literary club or a museum. Prefer artistic types? Go to the theater. As the cliche goes, "If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there." So you need to decide where you're going before you do anything else. Decide what kind of guy you want and what you want out of the relationship. Then you'll be ready to look for places to meet the guy for you.

Answer 2

Dont rush it. try going to a bookstore/ coffee shop. lots of guys hang out there. If you have a job of friends see if someone could set you up on a date.

i was 24 when i had my first boyfriend and i though that it would never happen. It will probably take time. Most of the time the Good ones are right under your nose, and believe me they are worth waiting for.

Good Luck

Answer 3

You are lucky. I was 20 when i had my fist g/f, and while that didn't work out, the right person came along soon after, now I have been married for 1.5 years, have a 4mth old daughter, and must be the happiest man alive (at 24). I was her first b/f at 20, and she is very happy. We met at a university christian camp, and just struck it off in conversation. If you want to be noticed by guys, dress nicely, be yourself and talk with confidence and openness...

Answer 4

Time to be more assertive and talk, friends can blossom into better friendships and romance. Never try to force a romantic relationship or you will turn a guy off. But there is a fine line of forcing romance and having the relationship turn smoothly into something more.

Answer 5

so what...iam 20 and i haven't had any gfs either..ur life doesn't depend on that believe me...but if u want to know good guys...first discover guys around u..u know only by chatting...like hello and how r u and what have u been up to...these kind of conversations...then when u get to know some of them as friends(and that's the easy part)...begin to compare which one of them is closer to ur personality...it doesn't always depend on how they look although this has apriority too...but u must go with the personality more....when u feel that u like acertain guy...just talk with him much and show him some interesting..maybe some smiling and some looks..u r agirl u know that better than anybody else....after u do that...u got urself anice bf :)

Answer 6

Be picky and look for qualities you like. Do not settle or rush. Be smart. Choose a guy with a good future and one who is what you want.

Answer 7

Just focus on making friends and keep your eye out for some good personalities. That's what I do. You're bound to meet someone cool :D

Answer 8

1)Put your pic on myspace and friendster. Let me know if no one add you there at all!
2) If you are angel ---> church fellowship after school
3) If you are devil ---> go to clubbing with your girlfriends. Guys will come up and buy you drinks..
4) Get a part-time job, find one you have to deal with a lot of walk in customers. No bad. You got paid to get hooked up. ^_^

Good Luck.

Answer 9

I guess its a lil late for you to look for adventure dont u think so , u shouldve start that at a younger age
but still if u really want u can catch up

Answer 10

Go to a skating rink,im 32 and my best friend and i meet lots of women there.So it would work the same for you in search of a guy.You don't have to skate either we don't.