im conservative..
but i always want to make him happy..
he always ask me to take nude pic of me..
do i have to do that?
if i dont..
is he still gonna love me?
can you help me how and what to do to show him my love?
or he's just playing with me?
he's in America right now and im here in my country...
2006-08-15 14:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by sorry... 1 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ New York City
Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
2006-08-15 14:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Carol R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do that-- then don't. He shouldn't be asking you to do things you are uncomfortable with.
If he doesn't love you enough to understand that you don't want to do that, then he never really loved you to begin with.
P.S. I am an American woman and nationality makes no difference in basic human decency.
2006-08-15 21:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm taking it you're relatively young and this guy is simply someone you've been speaking to from the 'net, but have never met.
You need to block this guy right away! He does not love or respect you. He may say he does, but he does not. You do not have to show him your "love", but showing him your naked body. You deserve better.
I went through something similar when I was younger. Please block this guy completely.
2006-08-16 03:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say he's in america and you're in another country. have you ever actually met him in person? do you trust him enough to be sure he won't show other people or worse, post it on the internet where anyone (including your parents, relatives, coworkers) could see? if you're not willing to take that risk, then don't do it!
2006-08-16 10:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Easygreasy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? You shouldn't have to send him pics like that under no circumstances!! Do you really trust him with pics like that?? He should love you no matter what.
2006-08-15 21:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Don't let him bully you into doing something that you are not comfortable with. Stand up for yourself, and if he keeps pushing and putting you down for it, then he is clearly not on your team... not a life-partner you'd want to have... you want someone who will respect you.
2006-08-15 22:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT give him any nude pictures of you.. If he doesnt respect your privacy, then he is not thinking about your best interests.
2006-08-15 21:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Krista ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering if he was showing them to his friends. Of course you would never know. You don't sound like you want to be sending them, so don't. Especially if you don't want other people seeing them.
2006-08-15 21:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by Chris P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a compromise: have a nice black-and-white picture taken from behind - it looks classy, sexy and if it ever ends up on the internet, nobody will recognize you
2006-08-15 22:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by clara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋