There is this guy at work whom i like. i got asked out. Which really surprised me.Cuz i thought he was dating or had a gf. At that time i said no. But gave him my cell# and asked him to call me some time. Well he never did so i asked a friend to ask him if he lost my number.He did! he asked for my number and excused himself but his mother probably throw out the paper with my number when she cleaned his room. He took my number down again and used the txt messages .Never called me on the phone. I got asked again for a date and i accepted this time. It was a nice date. Took two months to get asked out a again and again the date went ok.One month goes by and i got asked again but the day of, he told me he had to pass becuz he was sick. I asked him out he told me sumday he would go out for dinner.We still txt message each other. I don't understand. Does anyone think he is just playing with my head? Plz help! Should I hit the road
2006-08-15 14:37:58 · 24 answers · asked by Makemeahappygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...look...this guy likes u but he isn't sure about that yet...he does like u somehow...that's apossibility...the 2nd possibiltiyis that he is just having some nice time and he doesn't want this to grow up more than that...u want to know which possibility are u facing now???....go out with him and then tell him that u met some nice guy and see his reaction..if he reacted like surprised then he likes u...if he acted normal and continued talking in the subject...then he is spending some nice time with u...that's asolution.....or u can try the direct way and say to him(u know...now i want to know are we seeing each other or just chatting)...just directly like that....and believe me...u may think that this way needs courage...but after it u will feel soooooooo comfortable...choose the solution u like and good luck !!.
2006-08-15 14:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by doctor^love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it kinda sounds like he's just playing with your head but I could be wrong, men are very complicated creatures. But anyways, I guess the only true advice I have to give is why don't you date other people too? I mean the two of you obviously aren't seriously dating or anything so I see no harm in you going out on dates with other people. Just make sure that if you do date other people you let them know that you are still playing the field until you find someone that you like and want to settle down with.
2006-08-15 14:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ya so!! If he replaced into grew to become off by utilising it, he could have basically omitted you and not teased you approximately it. tell him, he'd be an fool to no longer understand you have been crushing on him, and your basically sorry it took you writing a observe to determine it out. yet you gotta say it with a grin and somewhat attractive techniques-set. do no longer act weird and wonderful or diffrent....believe me, he teased you approximately it, it extremely is superb. Now bypass ask him what he's gonna do approximately it, or, I want the formidable technique, and basically supply him a great ole kiss and get it over with...reliable success
2016-12-17 11:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you feel the time when he's not busy with what girl friend family maybe he just don't want anyone in his life more then a sometime companion not every body wants someone around there neck all the time that does not mean he don't like you you need to do come checking if he keeps asking you out
2006-08-15 14:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is playing and isn't that in to you. You can do better! If a guy truly likes you he will call you every day, and he won't lose your phone number. Not to mention...what guy has his MOM clean his room for him?
2006-08-15 14:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by prairiefire_14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him.
why? it's obvious why if he doesn't like u. but ur hoping he does like u. well i wouldn't go for a guy who's not that motivated/aggressive to try harder than that...he'll pobably put that same kind of energy into a relationship with u. maybe he's also a little irresponsible...which is another minus point. not worth ur trouble...he should be making it a lot easier than this to be with u.
2006-08-15 14:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your statement was not very clear and the answers here was just a guide, follow your instinct and have some patient. All the Best.
2006-08-15 14:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by seb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on and his mother is cleaning his room? What type of guy is this? Stop trying to pursue something with him because he is not worth it.
2006-08-15 14:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must like you if he's taking the time to text you in his busy schedule. Go on and continue with it.
2006-08-15 14:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not that interested and would rather remain colleagues, as you two do work together. And maybe friends.
2006-08-15 14:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋