What should i do?
2006-08-15 14:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him! I liked a girl for a long time before I finally told her I had a huge crush on her. It felt good to get that weight off my chest. It was killing me and I don't know what would have happened if I had never told her. She rejected me and it hurt but I am so glad I told her because, like I said, it was killing me not to tell her.
Even if he rejects you you will still feel better knowing that at least he knows how you feel about him. If he doesn't like you there is always the possibility that he will change is mind too. That's something to look forward to as well.
And who knows. Maybe he will jump for joy inside when you tell him and then you will wish you had told him sooner. The only thing I would recomend is writing him a note and giving it to him because it might be easier to express yourself that way. If you tell him to his face you might trip over your words and he could laugh at you which could be painful and embarassing. The best thing is to write him a one page letter and either slip it in his jacket pocket when he is not looking or walk up and give it to him and then walk away. Good luck. :)
2006-08-15 14:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok seriously.... that is how everyone feels. It's because you care about him, and if he rejects you then he doesn't care about you.
My advice... STOP THINKING LIKE THAT! lol
Tell the guy you like him... if he doesn't feel the same way...dont worry. There are tons of guys out there that like you....and you probably dont know it. We all have to strike out occasionally... in order to find the right person. Trust me...there is nothing wrong with getting "rejected". We all have our different tastes... what might work for you....or him might not be attractive to others. Keep your head up... go for it, tell him that you like him... I'm sure everything will work out just fine.
2006-08-15 14:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him still. So what if he rejects you? It's not the end of the world. To you maybe. Anyway, find out now before you invest too much of your time, then finding out later that he doesn't feel the same as you do. It's easier getting hurt now, rather than getting hurt later, when you guys have had memories to reminisce.
2006-08-15 14:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a thing every time i like any girl i get scared that what she gonna tell me or if she rejects me but u gotta be brave for this if u ask someone to go out they not gonna kill you !there will be an answer
Yes or NO
so express ur feeling or u get late
2006-08-15 14:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what is your choice.. either tell him and face possible rejection or sit and wonder and possibly pass up an opportunity? I would just simply tell him or make it obvious to him that I did like him, what do you have to lose? Good luck. Take chances.
2006-08-15 14:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might reject you. Go for it..the sooner you learn rejection is not the worst thing in the world. Funny thing about people. If they don't like you....there' more right around the corner. and if they don't like you?....I swear there are even more....
2006-08-15 14:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jaded Ruby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do that all the time. Tell him.. the worse thing that can happen is rejection, and nobody ever died from that. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
2006-08-15 14:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by tootsie45414 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen its part of life and in order to get better at it you need practice so ask away and the more you get rejected the more youll get over it hopefully you wont get rejected but youll never know unless you try it..
2006-08-15 14:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont know what youve got till its gone! Just ask him if he rejects you say you were dared if he dusnt than thats a good thing!
2006-08-15 14:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 18,don't worry about stuff like this yet! Go play with a doll!
If you are over 18,we all have to take chances in love.You don't know until you ask!
2006-08-15 14:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋