My brother doesn't think I can do anything for myself, if i'm doing something, he'll have to come in and do it for me, like i don't know how to do anything for myself, it bugs me really bad, can someone tell me something I can do to make him stop doing it? HELP!
2006-08-15 14:24:20 · 4 answers · asked by gpdw1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to put your foot down, and explain to him that you're capable of doing these things now, and that he has to back off and give you some room to grow. If he doesn't let you work alone, ask your parents or another sibling to help you to distract him from helping you all the time.
Understand that he IS trying to help, and not trying to be mean. Let him down gently.
2006-08-15 14:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just love you that much, that he wants to make all things for you.. confront him.. and tell him that you appreciate everything he does for you a lot, yet, you will appreciate it more if he could trust you enough by letting you do your own thing...
2006-08-15 21:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Let him know where the boundaries are.
2006-08-15 21:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him i dont need ne help
2006-08-15 21:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋