Well say your in a long distance relationship, and you suspect your GF of cheating, a lot, what is a trick question you can ask her to get her to admit that she is cheating to you on the phone? You've asked a lot of questions to try and prove it, but she really wants to hang onto you and not piss you off for some "other" reasons lets say, not to protect just the relationship, but other reasons, so she has blocked all attempts to catch her off gaurd, but you just get a serious gut feeling that she is cheating on you, even while professing her love to you ON THE PHONE! you and her plan to be together too, but she just can't satisfy her undying craving for sex and has and will continue to cheat on you while you are gone? so whilst I can't think, someone please tell me how to get her to admit she is doing this? Yall know what I mean...
2006-08-15 14:12:01 · 10 answers · asked by Borsch Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well say your in a currently long distance relationship but it wasnt always that way, just a temporary set back, and not for long either, and you suspect your GF of cheating, a lot, what is a trick question you can ask her to get her to admit that she is cheating to you on the phone? You've asked a lot of questions to try and prove it, but she really wants to hang onto you and not piss you off for some "other" reasons lets say, not to protect just the relationship, but other reasons, so she has blocked all attempts to catch her off gaurd, but you just get a serious gut feeling that she is cheating on you, even while professing her love to you ON THE PHONE! you and her plan to be together too, but she just can't satisfy her undying craving for sex and has and will continue to cheat on you while you are gone? so whilst I can't think, someone please tell me how to get her to admit she is doing this? Yall know what I mean...
2006-08-15 14:13:56 · update #1
Ask her how much bigger his hooha is than yours.
2006-08-15 14:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered the possibility that you may be wrong? I mean seriously. It seems like you've gone to alot of trouble to convince yourself that she is cheating...but what if she isn't? What if there is really no lie to catch her in? You've then wasted all this time badgering her for nothing. And when she breaks up with you because she just can't handle your insecurity any longer, you are just going to deem it as she had someone else. Only to find out later, that she never really did and you blew the one good thing you had. Not everyone cheats, not everyone lies. I'd like to think you had a good judge of character to choose this woman, then you should give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her until she gives you a reason not to trust her. I don't want to admonish you, but I'd also hate to see you lose a good thing over something you have no proof of. And if you think it's a little far fetched, ask yourself how would you feel if she was the one asking the constant questions? You'd start second guessing what you got yourself into....don't feel bad, we all would. Go back to basics and remember all the reason you fell in love with her.
2006-08-15 14:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you have is a gut feeling, after her telling you that she loves you and wants to be with you, it is about time you trust her. If you can't trust her, let her go, because if you keep trying to prove something happened when it never did, she will leave you. This same thing happened with me and my now husband. he suspected me of cheating and tried to get me to admit to it (which, by the way, is also long distance) when i wasn't, and it almost ruined us.
Therefore, if youaren't able to put trust in the relationshiop, end it, because an untrustful relationship isn't a relationship at all
2006-08-15 14:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Steffi . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe that she's cheating and she has lied about it, there isn't much you can do. You should tell her that it's over. Let her know that she knows why you're breaking things off with her. Don't come out and tell her that you know she's cheating on you. Let her tell you. If she doesn't tell you what you suspect then you need to be prepared to let her go. If you can't trust her this relationship is going nowhere fast.
2006-08-15 14:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like gossip. Just talk to him, if you trust him do not keep questioning him. If he is a guy you feel that you cannot trust then maybe he not the one for you. Don't just make decision a say he cheating on me based on gossip number one way to ruin a good relationship.
2016-03-17 00:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not speaking from experience, but, I can tell you she isnt gonna slip up! Its easy to say things that a person would want to hear over the phone.......
Its the distance between you, that causes you to feel insecure, so, unless you have solid proof, why let your mind work over time??
Do you have friends that live near her??
2006-08-15 14:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her when last did she have sex.And the answer she gave you was not when u guys last did it you will find out
2006-08-15 14:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if she likes him better than her. Just ask questions about him and she will eventually crack
2006-08-15 14:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by K.L.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you figure it out let me know
2006-08-15 14:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by reloaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her dump her!!!!!!
2006-08-15 14:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by If_OnLy_YoU_cOULD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋