I dont know what to do he went out with me while he had a girlfriend and i ended up liking him.Now im so confues because i like him and he's still with his girl.He said he's ganan break up with her but i guess its hard becaue its they were togethre for 6 years.I know it was wrong with me to go out with him in the first place but then It wasnt a date or anything we went with a bunch of friends.Well the problem is I like him and he still have a girl What should i do?
2006-08-15 14:09:41 · 25 answers · asked by Tiff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was in that guys shoes, you need to see how he feels about you before you put all your feelings toward him. becasue later on, you will feel like 2nd fiddle compared to his other girl. you need to tell him to make up his mind, but its gonna be hard on him because he has been with his gf for 6 years and it has to take something major to be wrong with their relationship for him to leave her, thats what happened to me and now my current gf is upset with me because of what happened.
2006-08-15 14:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by drew46759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before. The guilt eats away at you, especially when you meet her and she's the sweetest, nicest girl. Not only that, but if you end up on the other side, eventually some other girl will be in your position. Long story short, you're in for more heartache then you've already suffered. Run as far away from this guy as you can.
2006-08-15 22:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by waterlogged1214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my fren...first of all you have to ask urself.."do he like you?" if not then you just wasting ur time liking him. How long you know him? If you just met better you slowly let the feeling fade away. But if you guys love each other then dont give-up. Is he still love his gf?Is there any problems with his gf? If the his gf is a good girl then you have to be fair. You also woman and you know better when someone you love betray.
2006-08-15 21:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that he is not being true in relationships. He can be toying with you while he is still with his gf. But did he say he like you?
I know is not easy to 'tear away' from him as u seem 2 like him much. Y not avod going with him alone but rather in a group? And whenver he calls or tries 2 date u alone, u can reject. Its easier said than done, but as times goes u two will grow reject each other in the end w/o knowing.
2006-08-15 21:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by HazAver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them alone for now. You should also ask, "What if they end up staying together?" When the time comes, it will happen. Just think of the date as a friendly date, and no strings attached.
2006-08-15 21:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your emotions are strong, you are young, let him go,
why be number 2?
the others who answered said it all, let him go .
This guy, think about it, when you are having sex with him, you are also having sex with his girlfriends, and all who he "dated" BE CAREFUL,
you, nor his girlfriend, are being respected, don't be needy, don't let your heart and emotions make you lose your dignity,, just think,, what in the world can this "guy" GIVE YOU? WHAT CAN HE POSSIBLY OFFER YOU?
ask yourself, those questions, what is the goal if he even dropped hhis number one girl?
oh boy, you get to be number one,,, while he is out romancing other females,,
If you like a broken heart, if you like not haveing anything you can count on,,
if you like one let down after another,,then hang in there,
otherwise,
go take a long hot shower, think about all the good lthings you deserve, and remember you get what you settle for,
good luck
2006-08-15 21:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be making plans with someone Else's car.. Go find someone else who is single.. Unless you want to be second.. He will breakup with his girlfriend today to go out with you the same night.. But he will go back to her the next morning.. Then it will happen over and over till you or his first girlfriend gets tired of it..
2006-08-15 21:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The general rule of my life is this: he has a girlfriend and goes out with me, he'll have me and go out with someone else, so it is not worth it for me....Good Luck
2006-08-15 21:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip.....he is two timing u and this girl. Dump him go get urself a worthy guy not some loser who thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. U are being played.
2006-08-15 21:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him & get yourself a true b/f not someone elses b/f, he is using you & if you stay with him only you will lose out in the end if his g/f finds out, hes not worth it , if he was to leave her he would do the same thing with you, dogs like him usually do,
2006-08-15 21:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋