First, when you find a girl your interested in, make eye contact a few times and look away. Then give a little smile and see if she smiles back. If she does, then the floor is open and you can either walk up to her or ask her to come to you....once you break the ice with a few comments about how pretty she is or just basic info like names, age, etc, then see if she wants to get together for movies or dinner or something. This all depends on how old you are of course. If your younger than say 15, then I would recommend passing a note to her or letting one of her friends know your interested. Good luck.
2006-08-15 15:17:09
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answered by neabean18 3
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Eye contact, playful teasing they tend to try to show off there muscles or intellect. If a guy struts up to you and starts telling you how beautiful and wonderful and amazing you are, without batting an eyelash or stuttering....its totally insincere. The guy in this case is a player. He wants sex and has no redeeming qualities.
Now if a guy is looking in your direction but looks away as soon as you notice, and may approach you but much more nervously. He is most likely sincere in his admiration.
Why would I say this? Because if a guy really thinks a certain lady is wonderful, then no matter how confident he normally is, he is going to be a little nervous, worried that he is going to blow possibly his one chance to make a good impression.
So the best advice I can give you is to keep an eye out for that guy watching you from across the room, trying so hard to pretend he isn't.
Using any excuse to touch, talk to , or be close to you.
Hope that helps!
2006-08-18 05:47:38
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answered by sane_nut 3
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I just show him that I'm really interested in just being with and talking to HIM, and not anyone else. I'll talk to him when we're in a group, walk to class with him, wait for him after class, spend a few hours talking on instant messenger. I'm not sure if this really matters, but the left side of the brain is more connected to emotion and feeling, so I'll always stand to his left. And if I really feel serious about him, I'll wait until we're both alone together and tell him how I feel.
2016-03-16 22:44:03
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answered by Anonymous
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If I am interested in a gal, I will first:
Make a Compliment to start a conversation
Pay attention while she is talking
Give straight answers
Ofcourse make eye contacts
2006-08-15 14:52:06
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answered by rizwanholo1 2
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Guys are interested in you when they pay attention to you. They actually listen to you talk so they can comment when you finish even when you are saying boring ****.
2006-08-15 17:55:06
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answered by Anonymous
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If i'm intrested in a girl I walk over to her and say hi and try to start a conversation.
2006-08-15 13:57:52
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answered by Jimmy C 5
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and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
For GIRLS only!!!
How to tell if he likes you
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
2006-08-15 20:19:29
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answered by Anonymous
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sometimes they come out and say it....also if they are interested in you...they'd want to talk to you a lot...they'd do anything just to start a conversation with you.....even if it makes them look weird...they'd go out of their way to talk with you....also if they do meaningless contact...like touching your shoulder when laughing....it means they like you.....
also flirting back helps...A LOT...as a guy....i just try and make girls laugh....act weird...sometimes guys act like little children.....childish remarks.....it's just boys being boys....
also guys will try and act tough.....say flexing muscles to mentioning his "workouts".....
i hope i helped
2006-08-17 03:16:15
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answered by Yogaflame 6
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well, you show your interested you go up to them and talk to them, say hey whats going on or what up, you have to do it your self becase no-one well help you, Well, maybe your friends.
well, e-mail me to tell what happend.
kahnnette@yahoo.com
2006-08-15 14:29:33
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answered by nette k 1
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I got the redhead by being myself. But, then again, a few fancy dinners helped, too...
2006-08-15 13:57:13
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answered by yo_momma_is_sweet 4
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