one of my close family make me mad when i talk to him ,he think very smarter than me ,and make me feel stupid ,how can i treat to him ?
2006-08-15 13:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by Kathie 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You be nice, no matter what and walk away before he gets a chance to hurt your feelings. He has bad manners and you can smile and walk away if he says ANYTHING impolite at all.
2006-08-15 14:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you are not stupid,you are not the only one that have the same problem,so next time he come to you just let him talk alone,tell him that you have something more important to do,and find excuse every time he come to see you,at the end he might ask you why you are ignoring him and it will be the best time to tell him the reason and maybe it can be resolved.
Talking about that with the other members of your family might help too.good luck:)
2006-08-15 21:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that think that they are smarter than other people are miserable people there self, and do this to make them feel better. It makes them feel better by making you feel stupid, its like they get a hi off of it, there is nothing wrong with you he is the one that needs help and has problems.. one secrete, he wants you to argue, just stay calm and by not argueing with him it will drive him crazy trust me on this... good luck
2006-08-15 21:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by heath s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a brother-in-law just like this. I just like to antagonize him any way possible and it makes me feel better. Also, I only go head to head with him when I am sure that I know what I am talking about so I know when he is bluffing because "know it alls" do that a lot.
2006-08-15 20:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name suggests middle/east. yes/no? Believe in your self. Try to let him know that he hurts your feelings by being so obnoxious. **If that doesn't work agree with, or ignore, or repeat, everything he says. It will drive him crazy if he doesn't get the response from you that he's after.
2006-08-15 21:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Neil S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only for you most of the elder person think they are too smart then younger.. Better aviod to talk with him .
2006-08-15 22:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by ||| Romeo Boy ||| 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your question,I bet he is smarter.
2006-08-15 20:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it
2006-08-15 20:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question
2006-08-15 20:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he got so smart and then do what he did to get smart yourself.
2006-08-15 21:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by the_knowing2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋